Do Y’all Think Siblings In Medieval Times Would Look At The Little Beasts In Illuminated Manuscripts

Here are some facts about the aspec community whereas if you struggle to grasp or comprehend them, you probably still have some amatonormativity / allonormativity to unlearn:

Asexual people can have and desire romantic relationships even if sex is off the table for them.

Some asexual people like sexual content in fiction but not in real life.

There's a difference between an aroallo person and a non-committal cishet. No your cheating ex boyfriend who only cares about sex isn't automatically aromantic.

Being aroallo is not synonymous with a high libido.

Queerplatonic relationships can look exactly like an allonormative romantic relationship and not be one because things like kissing etc. aren't inherently romantic.

Asexual people can wear and like clothing that is revealing or commonly regarded as sexual without it meaning that they desire sex.

NOTHING but literal intercourse is inherently sexual. Kissing isn't inherently sexual. Not even french-kissing or making out. Neck kisses aren't inherently sexual. Flirting isn't inherently sexual. Hell, I only found out like two weeks ago that some people, even in the ace community, consider these things to be inherently sexual.

No form of affection is inherently romantic either. Kissing isn't inherently romantic. Hand-holding isn't inherently romantic. Cuddling isn't inherently romantic. Even all of these things in combination aren't automatically indicative of a romantic relationship.

You define whether something is sexual or romantic to YOU. This does not mean it is to everyone else.

Some aspecs just don't want a partner at all

Some aspecs aren't aromantic but don't mind not having a partner either.

A QPR isn't the only other option aside from platonic or romantic relationships. A QPR also isn't romance lite or the aro version of a romantic relationship.

Being demisexual or gray ace doesn't automatically make someone sex-favorable

Frayromantic people feel romantic attraction until they develop a close bond with the person. The romantic attraction fading does NOT necessarily mean they care about that person less or don't desire a committed relationship with them because relationships and attraction isn't hierarchical.

Some people don't want to engage with sexual content at all.

If you read these and you realize these never occurred to you or that you have been assuming some things, that's not a judgement of you. We all have internalized allonormativity and amatonormativity. It just means there's work to do.

Lyrics from Oleander by Mother Mother ^^^

I’m actually so fucking mad because why the hell is the creepypasta fandom so fucking stupid. For context I’ve been provided screenshots talking about sickoftulip (in the great 2025…) and how the blog created to spread the doc felt like a set up. You want the truth? I’ll give you the truth.

I wrote the doc. I was the individual by the name of Charlie in the doc. I was asked to help out because of petty drama and I accepted because the drama involved me and I was in a HORRIFIC MENTAL STATE due to circumstances out of my control and the influence of freaks around me who made me (and my friends by extension who ALSO HELPED ON THE DOC) believe the points brought up were valid in the way they were.

If it makes you feel any better, one of the “testimonies” in the doc was by a groomer (Claws / scourgethecat67 / 2000semocat). Did you know that? I bet not.

We made up with Tulip because guess what? We talked out our issues and realized it was fucking stupid. That was that. We deleted the doc, deleted the blog, and that was the end of it. I cannot believe some of you FREAKS are still talking about this doc like it’s relevant when the drama ended IN MAY OF 2024.

You’re all sick. Most of the people doing this are ADULTS. We are TEENAGERS.

I don’t want to talk about this after this post. This topic makes me sick to my stomach because of the state I was in while working on the doc. I’m still recovering, still healing, and seeing GROWN ASS ADULTS bring this shit up is actually sickening to me. Especially the ones who WERE NOT INVOLVED IN THE SLIGHTEST. You all joined in just to make fun of a teenager and thinking about that is repulsive.

Just stop. It’s over and done with, and we all have better things to do than linger on teen drama. Believe me, I didn’t want to talk about this again after all these months, but unfortunately, nothing ever goes the way I want.

I forgive you Joker, U are a good boy

some kabru doodles cus im obsessed with this freak

DELTWRUNE ANNOYNCED H MY FUCKUNG GOD

Day 29: The Watcher

As the world cracks and crumbles beneath your feet

“every Deadpool has a Peter”

what’d you mean by that

suntan fluff or something idk

"girl basil or boy basil" both. genderfluid basil. bigender basil. agender basil. basil has no gender and has all the gender. basil is basil.

i'm so sorry this is the first thing that popped into my head