THIS IS EMBARRASSING

I want to see women...

I don't want female characters in a movie to be just the love interest. I want to see them fight. I want to see them hold things that are "too brutal for them" and "only for men". I want to see their eyes reflect that passion, that longing for their freedom, for their own rights. I want to see their "delicate muscles" to strain, their "small, little noses" to get flared up by intense scorn for unjustice, their "lithe fingers" pointing a gun at a person who looked down on them and called them "just a girl". I want to see women fight.

Getting Started with Graphic Design

I started getting into graphic design because I wanted to present my blog posts in a more visually appealing way and provide more content such as wallpapers and printables. Since then, I’ve been able to enhance my design skills by designing for different events as well as working as a designer for campus organizations.

So, I wanted to share a few tips on how you can get started designing things on your own. Here are some of the things I did when I was starting out. Hope they help!

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Stop moping around. Put on a face mask, make yourself some tea and get the fuck to work.

No im not doing it i dont care

some things i read in january:

although it’s not quite the end of january here is most of what i read this month. various essays, interviews, works of fiction, poetry etc. 

In the Storm of Roses: Selected Poems, Ingeborg Bachmann

Yayoi Kusama: Infinity Mirror Room - Phalli’s Field

The Seeker & Other Poems, Nelly Sachs

Our Men Do Not Belong To Us, Warsan Shire

On Evil & Suffering in Modern Poetry, Anne Carson

Beloved, Toni Morrison 

Bringing Together, Maxine Kumin

You But for the Body Fell Against, Nathalie Stephens 

Conversation/s with Toni Morrison

 War on a Lunchbreak, Ana Božičević

The Grownup, Gillian Flynn

Wade in the Water, Tracy K. Smith

I Watched You Disappear, Anya Krugovoy Silver

Veils, Hélène Cixous

An Interview with Audre Lorde (Adrienne Rich)

An Interview with Toni Morrison

The Passion According to G.H., Clarice Lispector 

I Can’t Get That Monster Out of My Head, Joan Didion

Sister Outsider, Audre Lorde

Milk and Filth, Carmen Giménez Smith

Sharks in the Rivers & The Carrying, Ada Limón

The Moon is Always Female, Marge Piercy

Silver Water, Amy Bloom

Taking the Arrow Out of the Heart, Alice Walker

The Hour of the Star, Clarice Lispector

The Chronology of Water, Lidia Yuknavitch

Can I just share how I failed a subject because of my anxiety? Or maybe my laziness, I don't know what fits.

I'm trying to remove the toxic mindset of a student which is the idea that "Grades are ALL that I am." It was good, my grades are getting better except for one subject (if you follow my blog u know which one).

Something about either the subject matter or the instructor or maybe even the schedule puts me off in taking that class. Every time I see my instructor I get the feeling that she's judging me. I know she hates me or my habit of being late/absent in her class but the fact that she looks at me at a certain way added to my nervousness that I usually end up avoiding it altogether. I missed three meetings out of 12-ish meetings, and it's not good (since we can only miss three. yikes)

I know I should've dealt with this better but I can't seem to get past my fear of my instructor. I don't know how will I fix this (or if I can even fix this) but i'm really torn right now. I don't know if my bad grade is because of my performance on the specific subject, or the mindset of not treating my grades as important as before.

Some words of encouragement or advice would really be a great help. :(

TIPS FOR A PRODUCTIVE STUDY DAY:

Find a good place to study: somewhere light, quiet, busy, spacious, cosy, alone, with friends …whatever works for you. Take time to learn what kind of environment you work best in. Try and put your technology aside. If you’re always on your phone, turn it off and put it in your bag, if you’re finding the internet distracting, download “Pomodoro” (an app which blocks sites like facebook, twitter etc for a set period of time).

Figure out when you’re most productive: if it’s in the morning, get up earlier and spend a few hours solidly working, if it’s in evening, make sure you set some time aside to focus. For me, I work best between 8am-1pm, then I normally take a few hours off, and if I have a lot to do I’ll head back to the library between 4-8pm. Finding the time when your mind is at its most alert can have a huge impact on your studies and will mean you avoid spending hours being unproductive. 

Decide what you’re going to do before you start: if you have lots of different things to do, decide which one you’re going to focus on before you sit down. This will prevent you from panicking and trying to do everything at once, which will only make you feel stressed and unproductive.

Set realistic goals: don’t try and be overambitious with what you want to achieve that day. If you set yourself unrealistic goals, you’ll only finish the day feeling like you’ve failed. Set yourself a number of small, manageable tasks to work through, then if you are able to do more it will make you feel a lot more productive.

Start with the hard stuff: tackle the big problems first. Things will feel easier in the first few hours of studying when your mind is most awake, so it’s important to start with the trickier things first. This way, when you hit a wall you can work through a few of the smaller, easier tasks and still feel like you’re getting stuff done. 

Remember to keep refuelling: get plenty of sleep, drink lots of water, bring snacks, treat yourself to a nice lunch, take frequent breaks, walk around and go outside if you can. If you are planning to spend a long time studying it’s important to keep your energy levels up.

Plan something for the end of the day: even if it’s just going to the gym, making a nice meal, or going for a drink with your friends, give yourself something to look forward to at the end of a long day studying. 

Remember why you’re doing this: is it to get into university or just because you’re passionate about your subject? By linking something difficult to something you care about, it makes it easier to stay focused and keep going.

Not every day can be productive: if things aren’t happening that day keep trying for a while and if you’re still feeling stuck do something else. There’s no point sitting at your desk for hours when you’re just not able to get things done. Go and do something you enjoy and try and get out of the house, and just try again tomorrow. A few days off here and there is not going to ruin your degree, and taking time to do something for yourself is likely to make you more productive in the long run.

im crying because distance learning has been kicking my ass for FOUR semesters now, two of which i flunked.

No im not doing it i dont care

“A thought occurred to me today – so obvious, so always obvious! It was absurd to suddenly comprehend it for the first time – I felt rather giddy, a little hysterical: – There is nothing, nothing that stops me from doing anything except myself… What is to prevent me from just picking up and taking off?”

— Susan Sontag, Reborn: Journals and Notebooks, 1947-1963