Life With Borderline Personality Disorder

as most girls do

small things to improve your life 𝜗𝜚˚⋆

compliment people more often

pick up a crafty hobby

start to learn a language that you've always wanted to speak

take more photos and videos

watch movies, documentaries, shows, read, write, etc etc..

practice your makeup skills and try different styles

law of affirmation

start a blog (or just read mine hehe <3)

write essays on whatever interests you at the moment

make new playlists and update old ones

workout, stretch, go for walks

allow yourself to be bored sometimes; you don't have to constantly be doing things

talk to yourself with love and kindness

go thrifting and update your wardrobe

try new coffee shops and find your favourite one

embody the energy that you'd like to attract

dress up every day, you don't need a special occasion to wear your favourite outfits

decorate and rearrange your room until it feels like you

journal and write about your day, dreams, and ideas

manifest and visualise

reach out to your friends more often

visit more museums and art galleries

talk to the moon

As always, please feel free to share your own suggestions and tips in the comments! <3

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sorry if i was a bitch i probably wanted to go home

✧･ﾟ: what's in my bag (2025 edition but make it y2k) :･ﾟ✧

hey everyone!! ✨

sooo i just spilled my entire bag on my bed trying to find my airpods and omg?? the amount of stuff i carry around is actually insane but also like... necessary?? thought i'd share all the girly essentials i can't live without in 2025 (even tho my aesthetic is still stuck in 2003 and proud of it!!)

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first thing i grabbed was my collection of glosses!! i literally cannot function without at least 3 different ones. my current rotation is this super clear glassy one, this pink shimmer one that smells like cotton candy, and this plumping one that makes my lips tingle in the best way.

my baby compact mirror covered in those tiny crystals!! it's literally from claire's but looks designer and catches the light perfectly when i check if my lip combo looks good (which is always).

this tiny atomizer i filled with my fav perfume because carrying the full bottle is just too much?? it's this sweet vanilla scent that makes me smell like a cupcake and i'm not even sorry about it.

soooo many hair things!! tiny butterfly clips everywhere (the metallic ones are the best), those mini claw clips with the rhinestones, and my lucky scrunchie that's basically falling apart but i refuse to throw away bc good hair day charm??

i always keep this tiny disposable camera even tho it's 2025 and everyone's like "just use your phone" but the vibes are completely different?? some moments deserve that grainy 2000s quality and i will die on this hill!!

my mini notebook with the fuzzy cover where i write down random thoughts, cute outfit ideas, and quotes from movies that nobody else remembers. paired with my pen that has this giant fluffy pom pom on top that makes writing so much more fun?? (cher horowitz is my inspo)

roll-on body glitter because why not?? shoulders, collarbones, cheekbones when i'm feeling extra. sometimes i just apply it randomly during the day when i need a confidence boost and suddenly i'm the main character again.

gum in this super cute tin i found at a vintage shop that literally looks like something britney would've carried in 2002.

my emergency kit in this tiny zippered pouch with hearts all over it: clear nail polish (fixes EVERYTHING), the cutest bandaids, bobby pins, mints, and this tiny sewing kit that's saved so many outfits!!

and yes my bag weighs like a million pounds but being prepared is just like... my thing?? and when i pull out exactly what someone needs in a crisis they're always like "omg thank youuu" so worth it!!

stay sparkly!!

xoxo, mindy 💖

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