Thing Is I‘ve Really Successfully Gaslit Myself Into Genuinely Believing Bobby Is Alive

It fucking pisses me off that people keep trying to paint Eddie as abusive, even though he’s proven over and over again that, no matter how angry he gets, he would never actually hurt anyone. Even at the peak of his grief — completely furious — he still held back his emotions. And still, people label him as abusive, while other characters have acted out and didn’t get nearly the same backlash.

No one called Bobby abusive when he shoved Buck.

No one called Buck abusive when he sprained Eddie's ankle.

So why is it different when Eddie puts a hand on his shoulder and points at him? Why are those considered less intense than a hand on the shoulder and a finger?

And no — even though he was grieving, I don’t think Eddie was right to take it out on Buck like that. He doesn’t think so either. That’s why later he says, “I heard some dick (he) was pissing you off.” He knows he crossed a line with Buck.

In my opinion, the problem at that moment was that Eddie needed Buck — he needed them to share their grief, to support each other. But Buck was so focused on trying to “fix things” that he didn’t realize grief isn’t something you fix — it’s something you feel. And that frustrated Eddie because all he really wanted was to be with his partner. (It honestly reminded me of when the same thing happened with Hen and Karen.)

Every single fight they had has come down to a lack of communication, a lack of expressing their feelings — and the explosion that follows.

Were Eddie actions okay? In my opinion, no. But it doesn't mean he's abusive. He’s grieving. Just like Buck. Just like everyone else. People grieve in different ways.

Honestly, if you consider him abusive while thinking other characters’ actions were justifiable, then I have news for you — it’s kinda clear why you think that.

And I can’t deal with people using such a serious issue just because of a ship war.

s9 better be the gayest season yet

911 sweetie you’re supposed to be a home cooked meal not tiny portions at a five star restaurant. Just because you’re on abc doesn’t mean the characters and their stories don’t matter. Stop with major disasters that go nowhere. We get it you have lots of money now. But I’d rather stay for the home cooked meal than sit uncomfortably in that five star restaurant and still be hungry after.

hating eddie diaz is like hating jesus.. probably worse even

anyway i don't believe any of this actually like i do think they are playing us. they need us to believe bobby's dead so when he rises on the third day we're all like omg jesus is back i mean bobby

walk with me. eddie being back in LA but not yet back at the firehouse, hearing the 118 is trapped and knowing he can't be on the outside while his family is in danger again, showing up to the scene and stealing a set of turnouts to run in and help, saving buck who in the heat of the moment grabs his face and kisses him but then jumps back in horror only to reach back out and wipe the soot off eddie's mouth because he learned that lesson the hard way

i would like to take this opportunity to thank the hot priest. truly the 911 character of all time. came in in s1 with his katy perry ringtone and helped bobby walking suicide risk nash forgive himself. and then appeared in s8 and did what no man could do in seven seasons. heal eddie diaz. also flirted with him. thank you for your service kind sir

the earthquake in season two being where their work partnership was forged and the earthquake in season eight being where their romantic partnership will be forged

🥰 EDDIE 🥰 would 🙅‍♂️ never 🙅‍♂️ do something 🚫 illegal 🚫 🥰 EDDIE 🥰 has a 🎖️ Silver Star 🎖️‼️😍🥰

Nah, this is way too light-hearted if Bobby is actually dead/Peter is leaving the show.