ihopeyourehappy-myfriend

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the noise i just made

Palestinian ButchFemme wedding, 2022, @/leilanations

i love you vaccines i love you research i love you reading the book instead of having chatgpt summarize it i love you critically thinking rather than reacting to a headline i love you investigating the source material i love you science i love you math even though you are personally my enemy (math/yn slowburn) i love you writing even though you try to stab me a lot i love you Experts in Your Field i love you Using The Brain

Marcel Proust, from a letter featured in The Selected Letters of Marcel Proust

1950s Butch-Femme wedding, seen in Before Stonewall (1984)

Forest Scene (1870) by Thomas Moran

𝔣𝔯𝔢𝔰𝔥 𝔠𝔬𝔣𝔣𝔢𝔢 + 𝔣𝔯𝔢𝔰𝔥 𝔣𝔩𝔬𝔴𝔢𝔯𝔰 + 𝔣𝔯𝔢𝔰𝔥 𝔞𝔦𝔯

nerdy lesbians I love you so much, please tell me about all your interests and the niche facts you know, I will happily listen and most likely fall in love with you

Paris lesbian club, 1934

Virginia Woolf, from a letter to Vanessa Bell (August 1908)

𝔰𝔲𝔪𝔪𝔢𝔯 𝔰𝔦𝔪𝔭𝔩𝔦𝔠𝔦𝔱𝔶

by pablo.ruizgarcia

Magical stained glass

I can't wait to have a loser lesbian summer...then a loser lesbian autumn..and also a loser lesbian winter.

Happy National Library Week!! A great time to ask everyone you know if they have a library card.

The best compliment I received this year was all the other students in my accomodation during placement agreeing that my true calling was to open a bakery after I baked caramel slice and lemon bars for our Married at First Sight watch party.

i want my baking to be so good that when someone eats it they either wonder why im not married or have a split-second panic abt proposing to me right then and there

I think it’s so so SO important to show love in ways other than buying loads of stuff, and that goes for both parties in all relationships.

The commodification of love through trends like elaborate Valentine’s Day proposals and boo baskets make cringe so hard thinking of the environmental impact. Obviously there are exceptions, but most I have seen are people are buying random themed junk that won’t get used year-round (does anyone really need a polyester pumpkin-print blanket?)

Social media tells us that showing we care has a dollar figure attached. For women in general, but also for femmes in a butchfemme dynamic, the prevailing narrative is that if our partners aren’t spending money on grand romantic gestures and buying us gifts all the time, they don’t truly love us. Really, this mentality only benefits corporations.

Gift giving can be a beautiful and heartfelt expression of love - when done with consideration. When you give a gift, make sure it is meaningful and the recipient can used for years to come. Choose mostly to express your love for your partner, your friends and family, and your wider community in ways that benefit you and the earth, rather than Jeff Bezos.

casual reminder that you can still spoil your femme without feeding into consumerism <3

write them notes n love letters, cook them their favorite meal, bake them a treat, steal them something from a shitty corporation, spoil them with words of affirmation and gratitude, bring back a pretty rock shell leaf etc. from an outdoor trip you had, proudly show off photos of yourself or photos you took, lend them your favorite book with a note abt why it's your favorite, put the towel in the dryer before they're out of the shower n wrap them in it, pick out outfits from their wardrobe you think they'd be cute in so they can show off for you, give them your undivided attention & ask encouraging questions, etc etc etc

lucy dacus and katie gavin by vivian kim / cindy crawford and k.d. lang by herb britts

the butch/femme scene of 1990s san francisco by chloe sherman

Genuinely what did people who use chatGPT for everything do before it existed?

it really is crazy how quickly people were willing to just let chatgpt do everything for them. i have never even tried it. brother i don't even know if it's just a website you go to or what. i do not know where chatgpt actually lives, because i can decide my own grocery list.

Flowers in Her Hair

Mr. Bennet: Sure, I haven't taken care of my daughters' financial security, but have I at least taken care of their education? No. But have I taken care of their emotional needs? Also no. But have I been a good protector and supervisor? I'm afraid not. However, have I been a good example for my children of being a kind and respectful spouse, parent, and all around human being? No again. But through it all, have I nailed being funny? Yes. And isn't that the most important role of a father after all?

Computer, how do I quit my job and live here frolicking in the garden and baking sourdough all day? Quickest route, no generational wealth. Computer, do you hear me??

My on prac wins include getting out of bed every day and causing permanent psychological damage to zero children so far

every week I have to turn in a weekly journal for student teaching and every week the questions are "what were your successes" and I can't answer them honestly because apparently its "unprofessional" and "concerning" if i write "I haven't killed myself yet nor have I developed a nicotine addiction...may start smoking though..."

My view today ☺️

✨ lil bio post ✨

About me:

21yo

lesbian, mostly femme4masc/butch

Uni student

My interest/hobbies:

Reading

Thrifting

Whimsigoth and vintage fashion

Cooking and baking

Farmers markets

Singing

History

Music I like:

Lizzie McAlpine

MUNA

This Hits from the 1940s playlist (https://music.apple.com/au/album/hits-from-the-40s/282767172?l=en-GB)

Boygenius

Lucy Dacus

Genres I read

Classics

Literacy fiction

Historical fiction