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Flaking Out

It’s another Tuesday and that means another Hotwifing episode by yours Truly. This week I want to talk about you Bulls again. About how so many of you Flake Out.

I have personally been out on many dates with Bulls and I think I have most of you figured out. I don’t mean to single you all out and say that you all have issues. But there really is a large group of so called Bulls who come across wonderful at first but then all of a sudden they just disappear. I call this Flaking Out.

So I want to talk to you men out there and discuss some etiquette when it come to meeting, or even talking about meeting. 1. You all should know that if you are talking to a Hotwife, then you should be on your best behaviour. You are being evaluated by not just me but also my Stag. Maybe more by the Stag.

Most of you are pretty good at this part, except for the ones who have no clue how to handle a Hotwife, or are young, dumb, and full of useless cum.

2. Don’t lie about your experiences or lack of them. I’ve noticed some of you Bulls like to Jack up your supposed experience and when we all get down to business, it’s obvious that you have none at all. So be truthful. Having no experience is not a problem most of the time as long as everyone is aware.

3. When texting, chatting, or calling the Hotwife don’t jump straight into a sexual conversation unless she wants you to. And don’t push your luck about forcing it either.

4. And this is the one that is the most important…. If you all agree on meeting for a meet and greet, please show up. And also show up on time. Here is why I want this point to be made clearly….Hotwives have lives and so do their Stags. Many times these 2 also have a family at home. So when these 2 make plans to meet you, then you can guarantee that they really do want to meet you. So, when you decide that you love the idea but are too frightened to actually meet…you just wasted the Stag and Hotwifes time. That will give you a flat out denial for a second chance. Especially if you can’t even call them to explain why.

This is all really a no brainer anyway but I’ve experienced this a few times with “bulls” that never even got to see me and just totally flaked never to be heard from again. This is not only stupid but it is rude. Don’t start conversations with Hotwives if you aren’t ready! Let me repeat that……DONT start conversations with Hotwives IF YOU ARENT READY!

This leads me to my final point. 5. There are Hotwives who just want a one and done….And there are Hotwives who want a long term Bull. Don’t tell the Hotwife that you are a long termer if you have no intention to be. Make it clear to the Hotwife and Stag that you only wish a one and done. Never lead them on. This is also very rude.

So in closing today I just want you Bulls to start to think with the head on your shoulders more often than the one between your legs. Trust me, you will get a lot farther in the lifestyle with this advice.

This will be a weekly posting just for Hotwives, Stags, Bulls, and Swingers. Every Tuesday I will focus on your questions, comments, and statements of the Hotwife lifestyle. Feel free to direct all questions today through the submit feature of my Blog! Thank you and Happy Hotwifing! 💋    ~LillybGoddess

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Kiss me again and again and again-Vixen