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Hotwife Lifestyle - Understanding Our Man’s Hotwife Fantasy and How to Use That to Our Advantage

The fantasy of having a “Hotwife” is growing, in fact, research shows it is growing at a higher rate than a good majority of the other lifestyle alternatives, including the old staple of “swinging” and the modern “open relationship”.  Why is it that a fantasy that revolves around only one part of a relationship – the woman – going out and finding pleasure from another man more intriguing to an increasing number of men than going out and “getting some” for himself?  

Basic psychology tells us that men are highly competitive creatures.  They have a drive to compete with other males of the species for the best mate – this isn’t so much different than what happens in the animal kingdom.  Most men have an innate drive to compete with other men when it comes to the “best mate” or the “most attractive woman”.  With this being said, one of the reservations of most women who find out about their husband or partner’s Hotwife fantasy is that he is somehow “weaker” than the rest because he wants to give up his position as your only partner.  Is this really true, though?  Could the truth lie somewhere within today’s man’s loss of natural competition in everyday life, and a desire to maintain a level of competition after marriage or “monogamy”?  Is this weakness, or rather the ultimate confidence?  

Cuckholding aside, because this aspect of the fantasy requires a bit more in terms of a “woman led” relationship, and a bit more from the man in terms of a desire for mental sadomasochism, a good majority of men enjoy the idea that they have been able to “capture” the best mate and even when she’s out having amazing physical and emotional experiences with men who may have qualities that actually supersede their own – a better body, a larger cock, youth, more prowess in bed – their woman actually WANTS to come back to them at the end of the night.  While most Hotwife-Husbands do get some level of turn-on from the jealousy and the possibility that their Hotwife may actually be enjoying their dates more than they enjoy being “at home”, the overwhelming desire is the competition and the “win” in terms of having a wife who chooses them again and again even after being allowed to go out and have other men.  

As Hotwives, we may be the focus of the fantasy, but there is that deeper and more psychological desire of a man who, even after committing to one woman, is able to compete with other males sexually.  This is why the desire for “reclaiming” a Hotwife after a date is so strong – it’s actually been scientifically proven that men who are able to reclaim a partner after she has been with someone else have an increase in testosterone levels, which means stronger desire, more powerful erections, longer lasting erections, and an overall stronger sex drive.  So, what does this mean for us as Hotwives?

He Enjoys the Jealousy, Go with It

As women we’ve learned that inducing some jealousy can actually be a good thing when it comes to dating – before we’ve found our “person”.  We use our female prowess to keep the men who we are seeing guessing…why?  Because they seem more interested in us when it seems as though we may not be 100% there.  So, if this works in the dating world, why wouldn’t it work once we’re married? In contrast, women typically don’t respond as well, or in the same way to jealousy – we tend to worry, question, and sometimes shut down if we feel that he might be “just not that into us”.  Naturally, because of our own feelings on the matter, we tend to avoid making our men jealous once we’ve committed to them, because we, ourselves don’t want to feel as though we’re in constant competition with other, more attractive, sexier, younger, etc., women.  Why would we do something to the man that we love that we, ourselves, would hate?

For men, though, and especially those with Hotwife fantasies, jealousy is a big component and tool for us to keep our men hot and bothered.  Sometimes just the mere mention of being flirted with by that cute guy at our favorite restaurant, or our interest in the sexy personal trainer at the gym is enough to send our men into a sexual frenzy.  It doesn’t take a lot to feed the fantasy.  It’s not ALL about dates and recounting how well we got worked over in the bedroom (and how much we loved it), though that is the ultimate turn on for our men, it’s also about the little things – the mention of our interest in someone else, the sexy messages that we send to potential lovers or Bulls, the “tease” of how much we loved what our last Bull did for us and how much we’re looking forward to doing it again.  Remember, this ignites the “competition” element of things, which is natural for men.

The More You Enjoy it, the More He Enjoys it

You may be thinking, “But I’m doing it for him, I’m not doing it for myself” (a common theme by A LOT of Hotwives), but in reality, our men WANT us to enjoy our encounters. They want to hear about what this “other guy” did for or to is that sent us over the edge, and yes, they want to hear what we liked better about the “other guy”.  I know it seems crazy, because we don’t want to imagine our men, even if we did allow them to be with other women, thinking that their “others” were better, sexier, hotter or had something that we don’t.  That’s because we don’t have that “competition drive” like our men do.

Let’s face it, despite what our men tell us – “It’s all about your pleasure” or “I don’t get anything out of it unless you’re enjoying it, because I love you so much” – this isn’t some ultimate “unselfish” thing our men are doing for us.  These things come out of their mouths, but what they are really saying is “I want to know that you came three times while he was fucking you, and you STILL want to come home to me”.  It’s their kink, and we have to understand it.  

So, if you’ve actually taken the step into the world of Hotwifing, you’re going to have to learn how to properly tease your man into believing that, just maybe, your Bull was better than him in some ways.  Whenever you think “But I’m only doing it for him”, follow that us with “I’m doing it for him and he WANTS to know that I absolutely enjoyed it”.  Find some aspect of your encounter that was mind-blowing, and recount, in great detail exactly what it was that sent you over the edge.  This may require a little bit of embellishment, and that’s OKAY…trust me…embellishment is your friend in this situation.  Tell your man about your Bull’s amazing cock, how good if felt, how good he tasted, how fantastic he was at oral sex, etc.  These are the things that will ramp up that competition streak in your man and make him want to reclaim you with increased vigor and desire.  

The More You Want Someone Else, The More Your Man Wants You

Again, you’re playing on the competition and the teasing aspect of things here…  The more that you act as if you WANT to be a Hotwife, the more that your husband or partner is going to WANT you.  His desire for you is going to skyrocket, his sexual desire for you is going to make it so that he’s ready to chew his own leg off to get you back in bed.  I have experienced this firsthand many times…if I am completely honest about an “encounter” and admit to “D” that my Bull was lacking in some way, or I didn’t quite “get there”, he isn’t nearly as turned on as when I tell him about how amazing things were.  I don’t like or believe in lying, but I do advocate for being selective and stretching the truth…maybe your lover wasn’t the best at giving oral sex, but maybe he was an amazing kisser, so a good answer would be “he was amazing with his mouth” and leave the rest up for interpretation.  

We’re women.  We are strong and capable and we are smart.  And the truth is, this is a GAME we are playing for and with our husbands/partners, so we need to get our heads into the game. Furthermore, this is an intellectual game, and we need to use our intellects to get to where we want to be.  Where do we want to be?  We want to have a husband/partner who is absolutely drooling over us, believes we are the ultimate sexual goddess, and in is jealous enough to realize that in order to “compete” they will need to step up their own game in order to “keep” us satisfied – be that with amazing sex, extra romance, other rewards, or all of the above.  

Happy Hotwifing!

-S

What should I write about next? There’s so much to share and I’d like to know what you want to hear about:

Our first visit to a swingers’ club

Our second visit to a swingers’ club (Halloween costume party) DONE

My first time attending a hotel gangbang party DONE

My hotwife hookup in a hotel with Joe (the best fuck I’ve EVER had)

My hotwife hookup with Daniel (romantic dinner date at a fancy restaurant followed by sex at his house)

My first cheating experience with hubby’s best friend (before I became a hotwife) DONE

Our first vacation hotwife experience in Punta Cana DONE

Eating pussy never turned me on much, however I get a real thrill out of kissing my husband just after he’s cleaned my pussy after sex (with him or another lover…or both). I just love the scent and taste of our combined sex…cum, pussy juices, etc. I especially love it when his beard is all wet and he gives me sloppy kisses. Afterward I lick my lips and can still taste us. Mmmmm.

I’ll play…ask away!

Let’s be inappropriate…

When was the last time you masturbated?

Do you enjoy being fingered/fingering?

How do you feel about food during sex?

What do you do directly after sex?

Cuddle with the tip in?

What’s the nastiest sexual thing you’ve done?

Name a follower you would fuck.

Name a follower you have fucked.

What’s the sexiest part of your body?

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Would you ever be with a trans person?

Riding dick or doggy style?

Ever fucked in a school?

Most random place you’ve had sex?

Would you ever be part of the mile high club?

Name three of your spots.

Fuck on the first date?

Do you suck dick?

Do you eat ass?

Do you eat pussy?

Do you like kissing?

Is farting during sex sexy?

Ever fucked in the shower?

How old were you when you lost your virginity?

Do you prefer sex in the morning, afternoon, or night?

Do you like drunk sex?

Do you like high sex?

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When was your first kiss?

How did you meet the person you lost your virginity to?

Have you ever faked an orgasm?

Ever painted/been painted on?

You like sex toys?

What’s your favorite sex position?

Sex on a bed, couch, or floor?

Do you like car sex?

You get instantly horny; what happened?

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Describe your crush.

Woukd you ever be with someone with an incurable STD?

Rate your head game.

Rate your sex.

Would you fuck someone outside of your race?

Describe the type of freak you are.

Ever tasted your own nut/cum?

Into golden showers?

Body count: Under or Over 25?

How do you feel about nipple play?

Where do you like to be nutted on?

Which are you better at: topping or bottoming?

What do you consider “too small?”

Is play fighting foreplay?

Do you like angry sex?

How long should a quickie be?

How long is “too long” to have sex?

How long is “too long” to go without sex?

Is “no” relevant in a relationship?

Do you believe in no-strings-attached sex?

Would you have sex in a public bathroom?

Would you have sex in a changing room?

Who was the last person you had sex with?

Describe your type.

Name 3 turn-ons.

Name 3 turn-offs.

Name something that would make you stop in the middle of sex.

Would you answer a phone call during sex?

Would you ever pay for sex?

Would you accept money for sex?

How do you typically feel after sex?

Do you like your body?

Ever sent nudes?

Have you ever cheated on someone?

Have you ever been cheated on?

Would you have a threesome?

Would you have a foursome?

Would you take part in an orgy?

Would you let’s train be ran on you?

How often do you masturbate?

Sex with the lights on or off?

Sex with music or tv in the background?

Do you have a cousin you’d fuck if you weren’t related?

In your last relationships, rate the sex?

Do you sleep naked?

How often do you go commando?

Are your nipples pierced? If not, would you get them pierced?

Do you dive right into sex, or converse first?

After taking your clothes off, what’s the first move?

Do you make the first move?

Have you ever had sex with more than one person in a day?

Do you like dryhumping ?

Can you twerk or do a split on a dick?

Have you ever been recorded during sex?

Do you watch porn during sex?

After fucking, do you try becoming friends with a one night stand?

What’s your kink?

Would you hook up with the same hook-up again?

Ever made a relationship from a one night stand?

How romantic are you during sex?

Describe your sex in 5 words or less.

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