If you all really hate Assigned Sex/Gender At Birth as much as you say you do, can we start putting the acronym AFTER a subject? Like, ignoring how some dummies like using them as nouns ("AFABs"/"AMABs"), "AFAB nonbinary people"—just for example— could sound so much better as "Nonbinary people (who were) AFAB".
It's an event. In the past. By a doctor(s) who made a guess, possibly multiple times if your intersexuality affected that experience, and may or may not have been wrong. Start treating it like one, instead of an immutable trait that sticks with you for life and dictates X Y and Z about you— you know, like bioessentialists do.
Got reminded again of my old coworker who was a massive misogynist but also trans inclusive. Told me he believed trans women are indeed women because "only women would be stupid enough to want to be women"
I wonder what he's doing now
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other countries are busy fighting god behind dunkin donuts or whatever americans are on about, but I'm asking the real questions: which british archfarchnad is the best to brawl at and then bleed out and die in the trolley shelter?
I wrote this in response to someone asking for advice, but I think it might be useful as it's own post.
Choosing a budget manual wheelchair
I've been using a wheelchair most of my adult life, and I know a lot of you do get an off-the-shelf manual wheelchair and wanted to lend my experience to help get the most out of it.
Important to know is most off-the-shelf chairs aren't actually made for self propulsion (even though they're labelled self-propelled) so here are good features to look for.
You want one with the axle directly beneath the back end of the seat, this will bring the wheel several inches forward of most off-the-shelf chairs, make self propulsion much much easier and allow you to tip more easily for a wheely (fun, and takes pressure off your spine which is more important than you might think).
If possible you want a low or folding back rest, not an absolute must but this allows you more back flex for more powerful propulsion, this is more desirable as your back and core muscles are strong for extended work and only using your arms can lead to long term shoulder injury.
You want to make sure nothing is in the way of your arms for the most natural movement (we don't want rotation injuries), so if needed ask if the arm rest is removable and how.
I would hope any chair has adjustable length foot rests, but that is really important.
You want at minimum a foam, ideally a gel cushion for pressure care... No cushion means no good, it's worth the extra money to avoid sores and pain from something you're spending all day in. I fully endorse e-begging to help afford a chair that isn't damaging your health.
This is just self care, if you can walk get up every couple of hours and take a few steps, it's good for you.
This is an example of what to look for. Anti-tip wheels will help while learning, arm rests fold away, back rest folds down for more powerful propulsion, looks like a decent cushion, adjustable foot rests. This one is the "Drive Spirit lightweight aluminium wheelchair" but I've seen it advertised under other names too and I'd say it's in the budget wheelchair range ($300-$500) but punching well above its price point in features.
some doodles from last year
late night doodle of a twily,,,this is a superrr early concept from lauren faust and I think it's really cute 🤭💕💕