Cruel To Be Kind

Cruel to be Kind

Is it cruel or kind to ruin the male orgasm?

Ruined orgasms make little sense if the male is a dom. He gets pure enjoyment from it, it feels great, and afterwards, he will still be in the proper frame of mind to remain dominant. Nothing is lost in the process.

But what of the submissive male? He has been a good boy all week, so you decide that he deserves an orgasm. You remove his chastity device and tease him into a frenzy. At that moment, he needs to cum so badly, to the point where he would do humiliating things he probably wouldn’t normally do to achieve it. He is as submissive as he will ever be as you decide that you have teased him enough, and you send him crashing over the edge. The only problem is, his submissive feelings crash as well, as his body releases prolactin during the full male orgasm.

Suddenly, your good boy goes through a drastic change. He loses most of his lust for you, his owner, which inspired much of his subordinate behavior. He may even balk at being relocked in his chastity cage. What the hell just happened? He has been feeling so submissive to you but most of that feeling just got flushed from his system along with his semen. What he wanted, needed, maybe even begged for a few seconds ago is immediately regretted by you both. Why?

As a domme you will feel peeved by his sudden change in demeanor.  You think his submission to you shouldn’t change just because of a momentary bodily function. Are you just a kink dispenser for him? He should be submissive no matter what. And you know what? A truly submissive male will agree with those thoughts, feeling guilty and disappointed with himself over it. His heart will be filled with dread and self doubt. He will regret having that orgasm just as much as you now regret giving it to him.

Not only does he enjoy serving and obeying you, he also loves the general feeling of being submissive. It is a part of him, a part of who he is, how he identifies himself, and he has just lost that. The release of prolactin ruins his submissive frame of mind making it hard for him to submit afterwards for a few hours, to even a day or two. He feels bad, but has no control over the process. But working in collaboration with you, as a team , it can be controlled.

The ruined male orgasm. Is it really ruined, or is it simply improved upon? After all, it is still pleasurable to him, just not as powerful and intense as a full orgasm. The important part is denying the prolactin release. If successful, not only will his submissive feelings remain, his horniness and lust which are pleasurable to him in their own right will continue (subdued) as well.

Are a few seconds of intense pleasure worth it in the end? Or is it better to trade that short burst for a much longer but still highly enjoyable experience? After all, he isn’t really gaining anything by orgasming. He is trading one pleasure for another, his submissive feelings that can last days for a quick burst of intensity that lasts only seconds, and ruins everything else.

We have decided that ruined orgasms will be the answer in the foreseeable future. It’s just better, for both of us.

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3 years ago

What I Want

I want to cuckold you. I want to see you on your knees with your pathetic little dick throbbing between your legs as you watch another man’s cock fill my pussy. I want to see the lust in your eyes as you watch someone else satisfy me.

I want to tell you that you’re pathetic, that you’re not a real man, that you’re not even close to being a real man. I want to watch you wrap your fingers around your cock as those words leave my lips and I want to slap you across the face and scold you for masturbating without my permission.

I want him to pull out of my pussy so I can stroke him and cover my fingers in my pussy juices and his precum. I want him to slide back inside me as I stuff my fingers in your mouth and fuck your face like you’re nothing more than a whore to be used for my pleasure. I want to make you gag as he fucks me like I deserve to be fucked.

I want you to lay your head on my stomach and watch him fuck my tight cunt. I want you to hear the sounds of his big cock stretching out my tight little pussy.

I want you to open your mouth so he can pull out and fuck your face with his long, thick, slippery cock. I want you to gag on it like the bitch that you are. I want you to taste my pussy as he fucks your mouth. I want you to do it all without complaining.

I want you to guide his cock back inside me. I want you to beg him to cum in your wife’s pussy. I want you to beg him to flood my cunt with his thick, creamy, salty seed. I want you to be a good little cuckold bitch.

I want you to watch him bury his cock inside me. I want you to see the base of his shaft pulse as he injects his cum into my pussy. I want you to open your mouth and suck him clean when he pulls out. I want you to slobber all over his dick as you suck that slick cum off of it.

I want you to ask him permission to clean his cum from my pussy. I want you to beg for it. I want you to convince him that you’re a good little cuckold that can’t wait to lick up every drop of a real man’s cum. I want you to do whatever it takes to get him to give you permission to be a nasty little cum eating cuckold.

I want you to clean his load out of my pussy when he gives you permission. I want you to lick it up and swallow every drop. I want you to act like a filthy cum whore because that’s what you are.

I want you to beg for permission to have an orgasm of your own. I want you to humiliate yourself as you beg. I want to deny you that permission. I want you to whine like a little bitch. I want to slap you across the face and tell you that a cuckold doesn’t deserve to cum.

I want you to suck his cock until he’s hard enough to fuck me again. Then I want it all to start over.

Will you let me do what I want?

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8 years ago
When I Deny You Orgasm For Months…

When I deny you orgasm for months…

When I tease you to the edge and then plunge your cock into ice water, over and over again…

When I promise relief, but lock you up instead…

I’m not punishing you.

I’m training you to serve me better.

2 years ago

Rules of the dungeon

My Brazilian Alpha Master has made things clear.

When it will move in with his slave, sometimes next year, there won’t be such thing as a « normal couple » way of life, like this submissive being could expect.

« There will be a dungeon » he stated yesterday. And he gave a few indications on how he would restrict his slave’s freedom. Of course it is both frightening and exciting. What exactly could life be in this dungeon ? That’s what this post is trying to imagine. It is both based on a few things the Master actually said and on the few days this slave already spent at his service.

Everyday life

The slave will be limited to the dungeon for most of its time. It shall have a mattress there and a shower to clean itself. It will be allowed to enter the rest of the appartment for house chores and sexual needs of its Master. Upon his request only.

Chastity and nudity will be enforced at all time. A leather collar should be the only outfit of the slave.

Silence

The slave shall be silent at all time. It shall ask permission to speak before stating anything.

Meals

Meals will be prepared and served by the slave. It shall spend the time of Master’s eating at his feet, worshiping. It will eat its own meal after the Master, based on whatever the Master leaves in his plate. The plate will be on the floor. No cuttlery. Drinks will be either plain water or Master’s piss.

Free time and outings

The slave will leave the building only when it is useful to its Master. That would include shopping and errands for the household. The slave will be given a limited time for those. It will activate a location app on its phone, so that the Master can monitor its position at all time.

Sports will be managed indoor, at the property’s internal gym.

The slave will be allowed to visit its home country and family. However the decision relies solely on the Master good will.

House chores

All house chores will be performed by the slave. The appartment shall be perfectly clean at all time. The laundry, including ironing, should also be perfect.

The slave will take cooking lessons to improve its abilities in this matter.

Discipline

Discipline, through strong, hurtfull, whipping and caning will be enforced daily. The slave will beg its Master for it, accept all of it no matter the pain and thank its Master when its done. The Master will show no mercy. Additional sessions can be added any time upon the sole free will of the Master.

The slave should be proud of its bruises. Only blood can put a hold to a session.

Worshipping

The slave will treat its Master as a god. It shall worship him at all time. The cult goes as a priority through intensive feet licking. Of course the Master can include additional worshipping (armpits, balls, anus, …) at any time of his choice.

Sexual duties

The slave shall be ready for sexual duties 24/7. Upon the Master needs.

Toilet duties

The slave can be used as a toilet by its Master at any time.

Exposition

The Master will invite whoever he wants to, to use the slave in the dungeon. The only limit opposed to the Master and its visitors has to be the physical integrity of the slave. The slave has no right but to obey and serve whoever the Master choses.

Finance

The slave shall completely surrender the management of the household finance to its Master. The Master will make all decision regarding these. It will allocate the slave strictly the budget needed for the household expense and have solely the control over the joint bank account.

This set of rules can be adapted and complemented at any time by the sole choice of the Master

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