Every Day I Mourn What We Lost:

As someone who struggles with infertility, I *constantly* hear the defense from anti-choicers that I should be upset with abortion because I want a baby.

Let me say this loud and clear- going through infertility, IVF, and a miscarriage has only further strengthened my support of abortion rights.

Why?

Because I know how it feels not to have the right to choose.

Sure, it’s different in that I want a baby and some don’t. But I know the feeling of not being in control of your body. The fear of what the future looks like and how all of your goals and dreams are now murky and uncertain. The horrible depression and anxiety that comes with knowing no matter how hard you try or what you do, you don’t have control of your reproductive system.

Nobody deserves that.

“But, you could have had those babies for adoption!!”

No. Absolutely not. Adoption has never, could never, will never heal infertility. Whatever your opinions on adoption are, adopting a child doesn’t suddenly fix that trauma, and expecting that of them is downright cruel and abusive.

My infertility does not warrant a person to have to endure a pregnancy they don’t want. My infertility does not make their trauma “worth it.” My infertility absolutely doesn’t mean a child should go through adoption trauma all because I want a baby, and someone else doesn’t.

Stop using infertility to defend your bigotry.

the notes are broken 😂

A sneak peak of chapter 1 from "COLD"

Now, this is exactly how I want to see it. Our 4 lords sitting there and playing poker while this excellent melody stirred up the whole ambience of the game

... and I loved the whole process of drawing the playing cards with Cina, Karl, Moreau and Angie. Take a careful look at their "upside down" nature ;)

need a pretty girl that will let me grope her tits whenever i feel like it. i don’t care what size they are as long as they’re always available. i can’t stop thinking about how perfect that would be- coming home after a long day and telling her how beautiful she is, then playing with her boobs while she talks about what she’s been up to while i’ve been gone. waking up with her and seeing her next to me, and immediately squeezing her tits for half an hour straight because they look too good and i just can’t help myself. walking up behind her while she’s doing the dishes and kissing her on the cheek before groping her perfect chest without a word exchanged between us. in conclusion i love girls and i love tits thank you for your time

this post is about lesbian sex- men/minors dni

Elephant Trunk Snake aka Javan File Snake (Acrochordus javanicus), family Acrochordidae, Malaysia

photograph by Bryce Trevett

100 posts!

they should invent sleeping that makes you less tired

I am not even a little bit sorry for the person I become when there’s new content about my favorite fictional character.  You live by the fictional character hyperfixation, you die by the twenty plus posts I’m forcing you all to see about my Blorbo.