excerpt from the lesbian almanac compiled by the national museum & archive of lesbian and gay history, 1996
maybe i’m a joyless bitch but i actually do NOT think it’s funny to see women being like “the house is just in my husbands name” or “my husband makes all the money” or “i don’t even know who our mortgage is with” or “the only bank account/credit card is his and i get an allowance” like i do NOT find that cute or romantic and i am begging these women to Stand Up. you should at least be named on the deed to your house and the title to your car and the bank accounts even if you don’t pay for them/earn all the money. you can’t stop existing in the eyes of the law and the credit unions simply because you have a husband. if you’re raising his children and washing his socks half of everything he’s got is yours and it needs to be yours LEGALLY BY NAME. "he takes such good care of me :)" girl you are a PRISONER!! that’s all
Crash (1996) | Dir. David Cronenberg
do you want to play substance abuse with me after work
“vacillator” video out tomorrow at 12pm EST
not now sweetie, mom’s getting really annoyed by the way some so-called “femmes” on here treat and talk about butches like we’re only here to serve them as kink, sex, money and physical labor dispensers.
we’re people too, with feelings and wants and needs. we need protection, we need nurturing, we need the humanity so many others fail to grant us. we turn to femmes for that humanity when the world takes it from us.
you’re not protecting us when you’re asking us to throw our personhood away. you’re not protecting us when you project an unrealistic idealized version of butchness (read: sanitized masculinity) onto us of some short-cropped, perfectly muscular and suave persona with a bottomless wallet. you’re not protecting us when you ask us to go against the very morals that form the makeup of our identity.
don’t forget the dynamic goes both ways.
I really don’t respect people who don’t like feet. You’re telling me that you love everything about your partner except their feet? Fake lover. Fake worshipper. Just fake. 👎
I know you're not afraid of a little dark. Because you are the dark.
Longlegs (2024) dir. Osgood Perkins
changing my blog layout mid sext
Scanned from “Peep Focus,” an 80s Japanese voyeur magazine
i ordered a mofusand hipper yesterday!!!!!!