I Don't Want To Be A Party Pooper But The Lesbian Community Still Has So Much Fatphobia And Lookism To

do you like fat butches?

do i like sunshine and puppies and the smell of freshly baked cookies

now 2 beanie baby dragons are crossing your dash together :3

do you want to play substance abuse with me after work

did u see them btw...

i want to shake many young women and say you can grow in private. and what i mean by that is that you don’t have to publicly self-flagellate when you don’t know something or when you say something a little insensitive or whatever else. you don’t have to report your Bad Thoughts and Ignorance to the crowd who waits to judge you. you do not have to pay penance. you do not have to issue public statements. nothing more is gained from burying yourself in shame than you could gain by thinking “oh i don’t know about this” and looking it up real quick, or thinking “hm, that wasn’t how i want to behave, i’ll do different next time” and then moving on with your life. no need to choke yourself with it.

I think kafka’s diaries are the strongest evidence that journaling is not necessarily good for your mental health

gonna watch secretary tonight 😖😖