ive been seeing many posts talking about stone femmes as “people who do not like giving pleasure” and these posts really get under my skin. for me, this characterization of femme stoneness is not only reductive but totally inaccurate.
giving my stone butch partners pleasure, in the ways they like to receive pleasure, is deeply fulfilling, rewarding, and frankly hot as hell.
pleasure can be given and received so many ways and reducing stone femme identity to such a limited description does us and others a disservice. this stone femme thrives on making her butch partners feel pleasure during sexual and non-sexual interactions because they deserve to feel good.
pleasing partners in ways that align with BOTH sets of desires is what makes stone relationships beautiful.
I love you he/him butches. I love you butches with beards. I love you butches who call themselves men. I love you butch boyfriends and husbands. I love you butches with body hair. I love you intersex butches. I love you trans butches. I love you butches with weird genders. I love you butches whose gender is butch. I love you butches who are perceived as male. I love you butches who embrace their masculinity. I love you butches on hrt. I love you butches who are questioning. I love you butches who are disabled. I love you butches who are poc. I love you butches who are not as acknowledged.
The lesbian and butch community has always included you and it always will.
pussy tape/cover that says "ANAL ONLY" but once you go look theres no butthole. and you pull off the tape and theres nothing under it. you fell for the classic null crotch prank‼️
quite literally everything in life is better if you look at it and decide it’s butchfemme
not now sweetie, mom’s getting really annoyed by the way some so-called “femmes” on here treat and talk about butches like we’re only here to serve them as kink, sex, money and physical labor dispensers.
we’re people too, with feelings and wants and needs. we need protection, we need nurturing, we need the humanity so many others fail to grant us. we turn to femmes for that humanity when the world takes it from us.
you’re not protecting us when you’re asking us to throw our personhood away. you’re not protecting us when you project an unrealistic idealized version of butchness (read: sanitized masculinity) onto us of some short-cropped, perfectly muscular and suave persona with a bottomless wallet. you’re not protecting us when you ask us to go against the very morals that form the makeup of our identity.
don’t forget the dynamic goes both ways.
do you like fat butches?
do i like sunshine and puppies and the smell of freshly baked cookies
Black panther poster. Just as relevant today
had more time to assess it and it looks worse the more i look at it…..
haircut looks like shit 😛😛😛
having a girthy dick is a female trait
oh, to have matching colors with my handsome butch before we go out on a date 💜