Remember;

Person: describe your personality

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“The best advice I’ve ever received: ‘no one else knows what they are doing either.’”

— Charles Bukowski (via quotemadness)

Ouch.

I’m really bad at answering messages sometimes, still I get so happy when people message me. remember my inbox/ask is always open. gnight ッ

Emotional Abuse:

1) They are always right

Somehow, you will always be in the wrong. Facts and events get twisted and you will always end up being the guilty party. Nothing they do is ever their fault. They will have one set of rules for themselves and another set for everyone else. They do not take responsibility for their part and trying to get them to own up to something will leave you disappointed and frustrated.

2) They blame others

As previously mentioned, emotional abusers are never to blame for anything that goes wrong. They will somehow always be the victim. They will steadfastly refuse to apologise for their actions and blame anyone else,anything else to get off the hook. You are wasting your time if you hope that your emotionally abusive partner will apologise and work hard to change his/her ways. Why should they when it’s not their fault?

3) Gas-lighting

This involves making you believe things that didn’t really happen or aren’t really there. For example telling you that they have told you about an upcoming party that you are 100% sure they never told you about. They will never doubt themselves. Instead they will roll their eyes and insist they told you leaving you to doubt your memory. They will push their version of reality on to you and you may end up feeling as if you are going crazy, not knowing what is true anymore.

4) They are critical of others but do not apply the same rules to themselves

Emotional abusers often have low self-awareness. This is often because they are more tuned in to others in order to control them and manipulate them. Apart from being quite controlling characters, they are known for their constant put-downs.

ℭ𝔦𝔫𝔡𝔢𝔯𝔢𝔩𝔩𝔞 𝔰𝔴𝔢𝔢𝔭𝔦𝔫𝔤 𝔲𝔭 𝔬𝔫 𝕯𝖊𝖘𝖔𝖑𝖆𝖙𝖎𝖔𝖓 𝕽𝖔𝖜

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This is accurate

HEY!! If you take any antidepressants make sure to check for possible interactions with other drugs!!!!

No one told me that common things like cough syrup can cause serotonin syndrome which is generally awful, but can also be fatal. If you don't want to end up hooked to a heart monitor please research all drugs/supplements before you take them ❤