Does Anyone Know How To Make A Desicion

if someone said that to me i would be so pissed in what world do women who don’t wear makeup get ‘picked’ over women who do in what world are women not indoctrinated their entire life to think that they need makeup in order to be taken seriously i know i should communicate when i take issue with something thats been said but we hadnt seen each other for a long time and i was just trying to hang with my friend not be like the mood killer feminist or whatever But i truly need feminist friends to have these conversations with and also to help me not feel crazy