Hmmm ... yes, lol.
With someone yummy to serve me some wine and snacks. And maybe order a sofa.
These do make me giggle ... so sweet
That’s it let the whispers compel you to edge your mind away or maybe they don’t have to. Maybe you’re already rubbing or stroking to the idea of submission. Maybe you’re trying to empty your mind and let more of The Void in. Maybe you’re already starting to crave submitting to it. All it takes it just one more edge. Just one more to get closer. One more to empty your mind. One more to surrender your mind and body. One more. One more.
There's a truth to this. Those of us with the H of ADHD can easily overthink but that's very different to when we experience rejection sensitivity. Rejection Sensitivity Disorder is more prevalent in hyperactive leaning neuro divergent people, and recognising you have that tendency can be a real gift.
It's not that it's a label to shove in peoples faces but rather should be an aid to you (and maybe shared with your trusted close ones) that you can feel apparently rejection keenly.
Spot it early, don't let it spiral.... its easy for a poorly judged action or comment from others to trigger a reaction.
Try to be mindful of your inner voice, if it starts catastrophe talk, shut it down, practice some mindfulness actions and re centre
Sounds easy but for me it's been a practice that's taken ages to at least attempt to adopt ... I'm still learning and practicing from my mistakes when I dont catch it early enough
don’t tell me i’m overthinking. i’m overfeeling and it’s not the same.
... And does fantasy set us free? Or further enslave us to the hope of something better? (C) Corvina Fae 2025 lol
i can’t escape
I'm enjoying your blog, you post some lovely diverse things, but I note your likes are very sexual, and a few posts as well. How does that support the goth and emo girl or woman. Sounds like bullshit to me.
Wow, I'm not sure if you realise how aggressive that reads. Maybe you don't mean it maybe you do.
I'm authentic. My sexuality is important to me and I'm a feminist and gothic/alternative individual. I've self described at work as Other as early as it was possible and BDSM/alternative sexuality as soon as I could I'm part way through creating some products for people I identify with most, but expect that these will also be accessible to others.
Sexuality is a big part of who I am as I have had to struggle against people in my family and romantic partners in order to express it and embrace who I am fully. In my experience many people, including women and girls, in the alternative and gothic vein are adept at expressing their sexual individuality.
Bullshit? I don't think so.
I hope this answered your post and whatever the motivation was behind it.
That's not me just today but yes it happens
“Please don’t expect me to always be good and kind and loving. There are times when I will be cold and thoughtless and hard to understand.”
— Sylvia Plath
"And you've had to put up with people pissing on you, until you pulled up your roots and walked away because you realised you could"
Oddly, whilenive heard of Sylvia Plath I don't believe I've consciously read her work, something to address ...
Gothic. Creator of lifestyle aids for the gothic/emo woman or girl. I identify as strongly dominant female, active in my alternative and BDSM community in the southwest UK. 45. Bi. I have a partner but am poly, i currently have 2 others sub, one who i see in real life, one is a female sub online. If you're interested in submitting then ask away, politely, it doesn't mean you'll get an answer. See links coming soon for Amazon products ... be good ...
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