What Are You Feelings About Mommy Domme Play?
What are you feelings about mommy domme play?
TL;DR ... to each their own, no judgment
Thank you for the question.
I'll disambiguate it a bit.
Mommy domme in my real life experience is often with littles with whom there's a definite style but also obviously subject to boundaries and scene negotiation. I've enjoyed gentle participation at events with contemporaries of mine who have little in their care. It can be quite sweet, but can also be more sexual and it's not an area I'm comfy or interested in, if that's the case.
Online ... mommy domme again can be quite sweet, but to me seems to have a lot of repetition that for me just doesn't work. If you're my submissive I expect you to know to drink enough water, manage your life, and own your own situations. I'm a busy professional person and parent to four adult children, I really don't have time to micro manage you. If mommy domme means just the more nurturing side rather than sadistic, strict or sensual then that's fine but for me I'm very sensual and a lot of submissive or dominant play is in line with that.
I am however very picky for myself in who I talk to, I'm in the position I can be. Sometimes I talk to people who obviously get an initial something then either back off, or apparently can't or don't want to make any effort themselves. I'm not sure if this is a personal maturity thing or mindset on their part, or perhaps a general preference for subs with mommy domm leaning.
There are, apparently, lots of people on tumblr who seem to enjoy the nurturing micromanaging role, so if that's what you're looking for I'm sure you'll have plenty to approach.
Be safe, sane and consensual always.
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I'm enjoying your blog, you post some lovely diverse things, but I note your likes are very sexual, and a few posts as well. How does that support the goth and emo girl or woman. Sounds like bullshit to me.
Wow, I'm not sure if you realise how aggressive that reads. Maybe you don't mean it maybe you do.
I'm authentic. My sexuality is important to me and I'm a feminist and gothic/alternative individual. I've self described at work as Other as early as it was possible and BDSM/alternative sexuality as soon as I could I'm part way through creating some products for people I identify with most, but expect that these will also be accessible to others.
Sexuality is a big part of who I am as I have had to struggle against people in my family and romantic partners in order to express it and embrace who I am fully. In my experience many people, including women and girls, in the alternative and gothic vein are adept at expressing their sexual individuality.
Bullshit? I don't think so.
I hope this answered your post and whatever the motivation was behind it.
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ut severis seges
There's a truth to this. Those of us with the H of ADHD can easily overthink but that's very different to when we experience rejection sensitivity. Rejection Sensitivity Disorder is more prevalent in hyperactive leaning neuro divergent people, and recognising you have that tendency can be a real gift.
It's not that it's a label to shove in peoples faces but rather should be an aid to you (and maybe shared with your trusted close ones) that you can feel apparently rejection keenly.
Spot it early, don't let it spiral.... its easy for a poorly judged action or comment from others to trigger a reaction.
Try to be mindful of your inner voice, if it starts catastrophe talk, shut it down, practice some mindfulness actions and re centre
Sounds easy but for me it's been a practice that's taken ages to at least attempt to adopt ... I'm still learning and practicing from my mistakes when I dont catch it early enough
don’t tell me i’m overthinking. i’m overfeeling and it’s not the same.
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