being a tradwife but a “not like other girls” girl at the same time is crazy levels of delusion
one thing i would disagree with guy no. 1 on is that the trans community absolutely does use that language. obvs not every person but a vast majority especially online
This is a female "he/they". I'm so exhausted by seeing these people become convinced that they're "bad at being a girl" when they're literally female.
holding women to a higher standard is part of my feminism. no, you don’t get to just do whatever you want. time to grow up. take responsibility, stop this ‘i’m just a girl’ shit.
immaturity and selfishness is a problem among men and women right now. that’s the hill i’ll die on
This is just my 2¢ as a nonbinary person but I genuinely think that cis people's gender is just as constructed as trans people's. Cis people love to accuse us of having making up genders or artificially modifying our appearance but....the entire makeup, fashion, diet, workout, and haircare industry exists so that cis people can maintain the illusion of two entirely distinct genders with no overlap.
lowkey hate the trans movement for making pastel blue and pink together a no-go
an adorable color combination but absolutely do not want to be associated with that shit !!!!!
ive been trying for weeks to find the right way to say that, the way people my age (20s) nowadays, especially those who are very lefty in their ideology, speak about having children is fucked up
ultimately i think its just fucking rude and an overcorrection to the whole "women bear the children" part of living in society
honestly i can understand being scared of the biological parts of child bearing, i sure am, but acting like a spoiled brat and being all "i would never want to give up my freedom, i dont want a screaming pooping demon in my house, blah blah blah" its like ...its just a baby... its a little human. like you once were.
maybe yeah raising a child wouldnt fit in with your lifestyle.... but i sincerely doubt it, since these kinds of people dont do much with their lives it seems except be online and buy toys for themselves even though they're grown adults.... maybe yeah they shouldnt have kids then. just wish they would be less RUDE about it - and dont demonize women who do want kids!!!
nonbinaries and they/thems who are female and were raised as girls do tend to have the weirdest complexes. they're always like "i hate pink so i must not be a girl" or "i hate painting my nails so i must not be a girl" are you dumb. like genuinely, are you stupid. i went through a phase of 'i wish i was a boy' but it absolutely had nothing to do with superficial things like nail painting and everything to do with "menstruating is kind of scary at first" and "oh shit i really could become pregnant" ..... i feel like almost every woman has gone thru that.
even the straightest men paint their nails now. i feel like its never been more normal for women to go out barefaced, in baggy jeans, and still be....women. so. youre going to have to find some other thing to channel your internalized misogyny through, babes.
hmm. one of these categories of people is not like the others.
also funny that the category of women isn't mentioned.
Yes, gender ideology is the denial of female oppression. TRAs hate admitting this.
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