Commonsensegurl - So I Guess Im A 'crypto Terf'

women who are so obsessed with texting are such losers. no wonder you can’t keep a man.

honestly i’ve never understood women like this anyway who try and have all these rules about dating and think it’s so complicated. even back in school i never got it. and i guess this behavior has just continued for so many??? y’all don’t wanna grow up??? i don’t even wanna be friends with them. it’s so annoying to hear about ‘oh he didn’t text me’ you’re 28 get a grip

Imagine telling disabled children they're born in the wrong body or born the wrong way. Imagine telling autistic children they're born wrong. You wouldn't. But gnc kids? Yes those kids are born in the wrong body, let's stunt their growth and mutilate their bodies before they've even reached adulthood or before their brains have had the chance to mature yet, just because they didn't like sexist stereotypes. It's like a punishment. Punishment for not falling in line and obeying the patriarchal gender roles. You either conform or go through the meatgrinder and conform to the other mold. I cannot view it as anything other than that, a punishment.

a woman is whoever wants to be one

lesbians have to unlearn their distaste for dick

womb renting is ok

being a mother and having children is gross though

trans women invented feminism and we owe everything to them

all such disgusting propaganda.

the thing that made me see the light re. gender ideology/trans rights movement was the whole “a woman is anyone who says they’re a woman” thing

because it doesn’t make sense. there’s no universe in which is makes sense. youre not asked to just not define something in any other arena but this issue. i just imagined if we were asked to view other things in the world this way. it’s crazy. things have to have definitions.

but these people do have a definition, even if they won’t say it. they think a woman is just someone who wears skirts and makeup. that’s why they think a woman is anyone who wants to be one. 5 year olds have a better understanding of reality.

it’s all just good old fashioned misogyny. by this logic, if a woman doesn’t wear makeup or present super feminine does that make them a man? you ask questions and all of a sudden it’s [insert sputtering TRA word salad here]

it really is just a worship of the binary. masquerading as something revolutionary. and people are frothing at the mouth to defend it. acting like it’s a human rights issue. the biggest fucking con ever.

Do you think that the trans movement is going to fail and backfire eventually? Also, do you think that it will lead to more homophobia on the general public's part?

yes and yes

it's already backfiring, public opinion is swinging the other way even independent of libsoftiktok-level psychos

the general public is unable to distinguish between the gay community and the trans community, which is something the trans movement leverages for their own legitimacy, so yeah the blowback is a rise in homophobia and misogyny

like the narrative from the trans movement is "we're the front line, the conservatives are gonna go after us and then they're gonna go after women and gay people" when in reality the conservatives don't see a meaningful difference between the groups

leading to stuff like this where legislation is explicitly and intentionally targeting married women and the trans take is "how can i make this about me"

like obviously this legislation is more concerned about controlling the votes of every woman married to a republican voter than a handful of hentai addicts but they're positioning themselves as the canary in the coal mine and everyone is getting sick of it

but of course they're never gonna have to answer for the damage they caused to feminist and gay rights activism because they'll just call everyone terfs and run away

This is just my 2¢ as a nonbinary person but I genuinely think that cis people's gender is just as constructed as trans people's. Cis people love to accuse us of having making up genders or artificially modifying our appearance but....the entire makeup, fashion, diet, workout, and haircare industry exists so that cis people can maintain the illusion of two entirely distinct genders with no overlap.

when i say ive been in a long process of Unlearning Tumblrism/Tumblr Ideology, it means i'm:

-not putting identity/someone's labels on such a high pedestal over their qualities as a whole human being

-not reflexively being anti american. not making everything political. no not everything is political actually

-not engaging in self-degrading talk

-acknowledging my own faults and working to change for the better, instead of just blaming society for everything

-acknowledging that things are hard but you still have to do them (goes hand in hand with ^ )

-being less critical over stuff that doesnt matter in general

-spending less time with fandom, more time with life

this drives me crazy because that's literally not what feminism was about ... autonomy is part of it of course but that was a result of.. females being oppressed due to their sex.

"self determination" well unfortunately some things you just cant change. people on the left are like "you should accept this, this person cant change it" about everything EXCEPT gender, which is WILDDDD

of all 'feminine' things to pick out and feel weird about, its painting your nails and plucking your eyebrows this person points out? really? even women who are super feminine dont do that shit on a regular basis. i cant imagine smoking that gender ideology pack so hard that you reach this point.

This is a female "he/they". I'm so exhausted by seeing these people become convinced that they're "bad at being a girl" when they're literally female.

lowkey hate the trans movement for making pastel blue and pink together a no-go

an adorable color combination but absolutely do not want to be associated with that shit !!!!!