Cainterburytales - Stone Cold Bastard

Caretaker culture is gently stroking the body's cheek while someone is panicking in co because everything will be alright.

did you know?

eating can make you be not lightheaded

switching things up (pinned post)

About me

Co-host. Among other things.

Traumagenic.

Audiophile and art enthusiast.

Terrorpunk.

Anti-psychiatry. Not opposed to uncoerced treatment.

Neutral to all good faith identities. I do mean all.

About my systemmate & this blog

My systemmate follows from dualita and used this as their main blog until April 2025. We changed that because the two of us wanted to follow separate people. I took over this one because I'm more active and I already followed a bunch of people on this account for my side blog. I still post there, but mostly just art reblogs now.

Tagging system

#gen415 - personal

#ref - reference (mostly longer posts)

#for someone - age regression

#sys shit - system related reblogs mostly

idk why people photoshopped the crying cat meme on this pic when the unedited version is so powerful

being abused or neglected really makes it clear how many things are skills that nobody really treats as. skills. exercising autonomy is a skill. listening to your body is a skill. resting is a skill. being liked and being loved are skills. nobody tells you how to do this shit because nobody even told me I was supposed to have learnt these things when I was a kid. I kind of just have to manually figure out what makes me freak out and work from there. unfair as shit

protector culture is being so used to protecting the host that as we get better and better you start fearing you won't be needed anymore, even if everyone in the system still says they love you and that you matter beyond your role

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I don’t know what trans guy needs to hear this but please break up and cut off with that person trying to convince you not to transition. They don’t care about your happiness.

Go get that masculine hair cut. Change your wardrobe. Go on T. Get top and/or bottom surgery. Do what makes you happy, and don’t let anyone try to tell you their comfort matters more then your happiness.

So within two days of each other, Fox News writes an article comparing aromanticism and asexuality to pedophilia, and then Matt Walsh releases a video saying asexuality is a mental illness and asexuals are tricking teenagers into having depression.

Not sure what’s going on right now over in Conservative World, but it’s a hell of wild U-turn for them to suddenly switch from “Oh no! The left is sexualizing our children!” to “Oh no! The left is asexualizing our children!”

this scene is so affectionate it makes me sick. i’m actually so obsessed with it oh my god. ☹️