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Patriarchal Parenting ❣️

I have recieved many questions about how my husband and I “happened” upon this lifestyle….

My Husband and I use to parent together; like two co-pilots…. yet, our eldest son (now almost8) was constantly misbehaving. Every doctor/specialist we took him too gave us a different diagnosis. I had read every article and book written on the subject, attended seminars, but nothing I ever learned would work longer than a couple of days. We were confused and frustrated; spending every night lamemting as to why we could not get our son to behave and stop throwing temper tantrums. My husband had always told me that our son wasn’t the problem and it was us, but I always disagreed, believing I was parenting our son correctly. My husband was correct, it was us…. Our son would become overwhelmed extremely easily and have a melt-down. We learned that he was doing so because he had two different authority figures to answer to and he was becoming overwhelmed and acting out in frustration as a result. It was then decided that my husband should be the sole authority figure. Our son responded surprisingly well and our new approach has worked exponentially!

This may seem like BS to some, but it was true. We tried many different forms or parenting until we realized that my indirect disobedience towards my husband was teaching our children to be the same way. We changed our realtionship and lifestyle and our family has not been happier.

A wife’s submission to her husband sets the tone for the whole family. Children may not respect their father as an authority figure if their mother does not. When children see their mother respecting and listening to their father, they are inherently taught to respect authority.

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2 years ago