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Patriarchal Parenting ❣️

I have recieved many questions about how my husband and I “happened” upon this lifestyle….

My Husband and I use to parent together; like two co-pilots…. yet, our eldest son (now almost8) was constantly misbehaving. Every doctor/specialist we took him too gave us a different diagnosis. I had read every article and book written on the subject, attended seminars, but nothing I ever learned would work longer than a couple of days. We were confused and frustrated; spending every night lamemting as to why we could not get our son to behave and stop throwing temper tantrums. My husband had always told me that our son wasn’t the problem and it was us, but I always disagreed, believing I was parenting our son correctly. My husband was correct, it was us…. Our son would become overwhelmed extremely easily and have a melt-down. We learned that he was doing so because he had two different authority figures to answer to and he was becoming overwhelmed and acting out in frustration as a result. It was then decided that my husband should be the sole authority figure. Our son responded surprisingly well and our new approach has worked exponentially!

This may seem like BS to some, but it was true. We tried many different forms or parenting until we realized that my indirect disobedience towards my husband was teaching our children to be the same way. We changed our realtionship and lifestyle and our family has not been happier.

A wife’s submission to her husband sets the tone for the whole family. Children may not respect their father as an authority figure if their mother does not. When children see their mother respecting and listening to their father, they are inherently taught to respect authority.

Do I love washing dishes? No.

Do I love doing laundry? Oh fuck no.

Am I always 100% enthusiastic to pleasure my husband after a long day of cooking, cleaning and raising babies? Of course not.

But do I do it anyway? Hell yes! Because…

Do I love not having to wake up and haul my ass to work every day? Absolutely!

And do I love having my credit card bills paid every month. Yes, I do.

And I love my hair appointments and nail appointments and lunch dates.

And above all else, I love seeing the satisfied look on my husbands face when he’s fed, fucked, and relaxing in a clean home, and the adoration in his eyes when he looks at me, because I am the woman that did it all for him💕

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Spoil Him.

Once upon a time, I was an arrogant, self-centered brat who believed my husband was lucky to even be sharing the same air I breathed. I was beautiful, men flocked to me, and he should have thanked his lucky stars I chose him. I’m not even sure why he stayed with me, to be honest. I guess the old fashioned saying “Marriage is hard. If something is broken, fix it. Don’t throw it away” really worked in my favor.

Life got hard, arguments abound, and my effortless beauty started to fade. He’d tell me, I like blonde hair. I like toned bodies. I like tanned skin, and every suggestion was met with malice, resentment and defense. I was perfect, why couldn’t he see that?

Because I wasn’t perfect. I neglected him for my own needs. I saw only my ideals, my problems, and he was never good enough. I wanted everything and gave nothing.

Sex stopped. Love stopped, attention stopped and I felt lost for a long time. Then, when all was almost lost, I started doing the things he asked of me. I cooked our meals, I cleaned our home, I made myself presentable for him in ways I knew he enjoyed and appreciated.

Suddenly, our relationship started to bloom. The winter was ending. His approval, his praise, it made my cunt drip and sex became a drug. Feeling sexy for him became an obsession. He worked hard, paid the bills, provided for our family, and I saw beyond my own conceited pre-conceived notions and appreciated him for being a MAN. And now I’m happy, blessed and fulfilled to be his woman.

Traditional gender roles may not be right for you, but they are for us. I’ve never felt more right in anything I’ve done before than when I’m doing something for him.

And when he says “Get a tan” I lay in the tanning bed with a wet pussy.