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Patriarchal Parenting ❣️

I have recieved many questions about how my husband and I “happened” upon this lifestyle….

My Husband and I use to parent together; like two co-pilots…. yet, our eldest son (now almost8) was constantly misbehaving. Every doctor/specialist we took him too gave us a different diagnosis. I had read every article and book written on the subject, attended seminars, but nothing I ever learned would work longer than a couple of days. We were confused and frustrated; spending every night lamemting as to why we could not get our son to behave and stop throwing temper tantrums. My husband had always told me that our son wasn’t the problem and it was us, but I always disagreed, believing I was parenting our son correctly. My husband was correct, it was us…. Our son would become overwhelmed extremely easily and have a melt-down. We learned that he was doing so because he had two different authority figures to answer to and he was becoming overwhelmed and acting out in frustration as a result. It was then decided that my husband should be the sole authority figure. Our son responded surprisingly well and our new approach has worked exponentially!

This may seem like BS to some, but it was true. We tried many different forms or parenting until we realized that my indirect disobedience towards my husband was teaching our children to be the same way. We changed our realtionship and lifestyle and our family has not been happier.

A wife’s submission to her husband sets the tone for the whole family. Children may not respect their father as an authority figure if their mother does not. When children see their mother respecting and listening to their father, they are inherently taught to respect authority.

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Things I’ve Learned From  Good Men

- Men and girls are not equal, and that’s a good thing

- The Male gender is superior to the female gender, but that does not mean all Men are good.

- a good Man is strong, smart, responsible, decisive, caring, and protective, among other things. He is an owner and a leader, not an abuser. 

- a girl can respect the Male gender as a whole but reserve her submission for a good Man (or multiple good Men. Not everyone is monogamous)

- the world is a tough place for girls, and any girl who has been claimed by a good Man is better off surrendering her mind, body, and rights to Him, because He knows what is best for her.

- a well behaved good girl puts the needs and desires of her Man above her own. She obeys Him without question. She worships and adores Him. She allows Him to train her into the best, most feminine, happiest, sexiest version of herself. Her goal is to serve, please, entertain, and satisfy Him. She is His object, His possession, who exists to make His life better in every way. 

- good Men deserve good girls, and good girls need good Men

Candace Cameron Bure