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I have recieved many questions about how my husband and I “happened” upon this lifestyle….

My Husband and I use to parent together; like two co-pilots…. yet, our eldest son (now almost8) was constantly misbehaving. Every doctor/specialist we took him too gave us a different diagnosis. I had read every article and book written on the subject, attended seminars, but nothing I ever learned would work longer than a couple of days. We were confused and frustrated; spending every night lamemting as to why we could not get our son to behave and stop throwing temper tantrums. My husband had always told me that our son wasn’t the problem and it was us, but I always disagreed, believing I was parenting our son correctly. My husband was correct, it was us…. Our son would become overwhelmed extremely easily and have a melt-down. We learned that he was doing so because he had two different authority figures to answer to and he was becoming overwhelmed and acting out in frustration as a result. It was then decided that my husband should be the sole authority figure. Our son responded surprisingly well and our new approach has worked exponentially!

This may seem like BS to some, but it was true. We tried many different forms or parenting until we realized that my indirect disobedience towards my husband was teaching our children to be the same way. We changed our realtionship and lifestyle and our family has not been happier.

A wife’s submission to her husband sets the tone for the whole family. Children may not respect their father as an authority figure if their mother does not. When children see their mother respecting and listening to their father, they are inherently taught to respect authority.

Vanessa Hudgens

Being a dominant is an active process, and that’s one of the reasons most men are not well-suited to it. Most men, and indeed most people are, unfortunately, lazy within their relationships. They forget to pay attention to their partners needs, desires, and wants, they forget to be present. As a dominant man that will not do.

Dominance requires you to be ever present, ever vigilant. Dominance requires you to pay exquisite attention to your submissive, to notice the changes in her attitude, her appearance, in her behavior. It requires you to not write off the little things, when doing so would be easier. It requires you to take responsibility for the success of your relationship. It also calls you to be the dreamer, to be the one who imagines a better future and who paves the way forward. The one who coaxes the best out of her and inspires her to greatness.

These are not things that are well-suited to the everyman, these are the developed skills of a leader. They require patience, humility, integrity, conviction and phenomenal communication. Men are not born with these skills, they are developed over a lifetime of dedicated study, research, and practice.