You've Gotta Be Fucking Kidding Me

I had to

Reading Lolita for the first time and I think I remember you saying it’s a proto-true crime novel. Def see what you’re saying since HH is literally defending himself to the reader/jury … excited to see where Nabokov will take this / subvert it

top 10 novel of all time imo

My bf is currently worrying about mystery money transfers out of his account into some random other bank account we are not familiar with. It doesn't affect our finances, more so his personal spending. Still concerning.

Why is it that I'm still suddenly a little kid freaking out that someone around me is upset and I have to fix it because the distress of other people is unsafe? Wack

I can provide him emotional and practical support but beyond that it is not my problem to solve. It is not my responsibility to fix.

(he's not asking or even expecting me to fix this problem, he's organising it all. I'm just built traumatised)

One of the worst things about being codependent is having to remind yourself over and over again the inherent healthy separation between Self and Other

One of the worst things about being codependent is having to remind yourself over and over again the inherent healthy separation between Self and Other

how do you feel about being autistic? i always struggled with it but i love seeing you talk about it so openly in a positive way

being autistic is amazing when im alone and horrible around other people

Norman Lindsay (1879–1969) - Priestess of the Magi, 1934

etching

getting shot in the head probably feels soooo good for like a second

First off, spin this wheel.

You just landed on one of 200 fandoms that have been very popular somewhere on Tumblr over the years. Topics were chosen either from appearing on a @fandom end-of-year recap or from my own long (long, long) site memories before that.

also all of these fandoms are definitely things that really exist in the real world and none of them are Tumblr creations