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Fuck

Call me selfish but I don’t want nobody to know you the same way I do

Whether you’re out and proud, closeted, or unsure and questioning

HAPPY PRIDE MONTH!!!

HAPPY PRIDE MONTH!!!

HAPPY PRIDE MONTH!!!

HAPPY PRIDE MONTH!!!

HAPPY PRIDE MONTH!!!

HAPPY PRIDE MONTH!!!

HAPPY PRIDE MONTH!!!

HAPPY PRIDE MONTH!!!

HAPPY PRIDE MONTH!!!

HAPPY PRIDE MONTH!!!

HAPPY PRIDE MONTH!!!

HAPPY PRIDE MONTH!!!

HAPPY PRIDE MONTH!!!

Fuck.

“She was saying goodbye and she didn’t even know it.”

— Markus Zusak 

“We get to decide what we’ll give to the world and what we’ll take from it. Love big; pack light.”

— Bob Goff

Want to say it to you but eh, bitch

This hurts my feelings but thanks❣️

I know this isn’t something you want to hear, but I think it’s something you need to hear: sometimes someone’s inability to love you the right way is not their fault. If you are the first person to show someone pure, genuine love, they may not know how to reciprocate because they’ve never experienced it before. In turn, they may not know how to give it back. This doesn’t mean that it’s your job to teach them, that you have to tolerate it, or that you deserve it, but I’ve found it incredibly helpful in my own healing to understand that sometimes people aren’t hurting you or treating you poorly intentionally. Sometimes people will self sabotage good things because they don’t think they’re worthy of it. Sometimes they just don’t know what to do, so they ruin it, whether that be by running away, being disrespectful, or causing pain. Sometimes, people still have their own growing to do. Sometimes it has nothing to do with you, it’s just that you happened to be there in the collateral damage. I don’t say this to justify any of their bad actions, but to offer a different perspective that may aid you in forgiving and ultimately reaching your peace.

— alhwrites

One important lesson I’ve learned is that building healthy relationships with everything in your life is necessary. With time, sleep, yourself, trauma, emotions, habits, family, relationships, etc. Once you find balance, everything else falls into place.

Camille Claudel (1988)

This calms me down so much that I could cry

Night Aesthetic

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Things that take time & many tries to get right:

learning to be a good friend/partner

healing from depression, failures or heartbreak

becoming amazing at an art or skill

overcoming anxiety, insecurities and low body image

overcoming the need to isolate yourself

changing self-hating thoughts to kinder ones

making a real connection with someone

overcoming self-defeating and self-sabotaging thoughts

learning how to study effectively

finding a sense of stability and calmness at your core

quitting habits or addictions

leaving people and behaviours that turn you into the worst version of yourself

getting used to healthier coping mechanisms & mindsets that feel fake

treating yourself like you truly care about yourself

becoming the person you always wanted to be