Daily Reminder That White Lgbt People Will Always Choose Whiteness Over Their Labels

Daily reminder that white lgbt people will always choose whiteness over their labels

On me and misgendering plaidos - she’s still being a racist and spreading rumors

SO i know i said I’d drop the plaidos situation–but I just looked and saw that plaidos is still saying that i am intentionally misgendering her and claiming that I still am–which i never did. she is also saying i am a terf because I’m still trying to hold her accountable for her racism.

When I first called plaidos out for her racism–i didn’t know her pronouns, so I used they/them pronouns for her. Not just her, but for her friends simply because when I get into an argument with someone and I do not know their pronouns upon meeting them I use they/them. Usually, when I am arguing with a racist–and we are going back in forth on a post, i use they/them if their pronouns aren’t sated in the post.

when i found out that her pronouns were she/her–I used she/her pronouns for her and apologized. And i admitted that even if I didn’t initially know her pronouns then I still should’ve checked her pronouns to make sure I was being respectful. I was in the wrong. Because at the time, was getting tons of anons and addressing not just plaidos but her racist friends who were harassing me–I got very confused and would sometimes use they/them when i was addressing her and multiple people and realize I was wrong. I apologized and fixed that.

Since then, and even now– I only refer to her using she/her pronouns. However, she is still spreading rumors and making it seem like i am intentionally misgendering her EVEN NOW WHEN I AM NOT.

Like i apologized for misgendering her and even apologize now and admit it was wrong. But it’s very telling that I am apologizing for that and she won’t even apologize for her racism.

I want to point out again, that this all started simply because I asked her not to be racist. And i found out that she’s accusing me again, of misgendering her NOW when I am not, and also saying that I am sending a hate campaign against her.

LET ME AGAIN STATE–that the only reason I called out plaidos in the first place was because she was being antiblack and racist–plaidos notoriously speaks over black and brown people, and she equates us talking about racism in harry potter to us hating trans women–if you don’t believe me–please look at my pinned. or just look at this link.

And this whole thing is problematic in itself

“idc waht your reasoning is” first of all–plaidos is literally a racist and antiblack–this is not be randomly sending a harassment campaign against a trans women, esp when there are other trans woc who are mad at her? This is quite LITERALLY me trying to hold her accountable for her racism.

And for her to call a black person “woke” or mock a black person for being “woke” unironically is gross. A white person using woke in a way to mock a black person IS racist, no matter how you try and twist it.

Also-the “sleeping in the same bed with terfs” what? Just because I told you not to be racist, you say im sleeping with tefs.

ANYWAY, this is just another example of how white lgbt+ people and white women will weaponize their identities to literally harass, smear and lie about people of color, especially black women. Let it be known that I agree with everything plaidos said about transmisogyny and speaking up against it, and even calling out transmisgoyny in TME people. I only asked her NOT to speak on racism or bring up racism in these discussions or downplay it, given she can never explain it–and she, a white woman decided to say I hated trans women and was a terf because of it. This is why queer poc literally can NEVER discuss racism in white lgbt+ communities or hold white lgbt+ people accountable because this shit happens.

so if you can please reblog this to spread the word.

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Congrats starco fans

If you really think that star cheating on Tom means that your ship is pure stuff, then go fuck yourself

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auranxia

6 years ago

The Signs as Things You Need to Treat Yourself

Aries: Hot Cocoa, Peppermint, and chocolates with oversized sweaters.

Cancer: A new book, maybe a mani pedi. New sheets and a reliable set of slippers.

Taurus: a sweet smelling lotion or body butter. Cleansing facial mask. Bubble tea.

Gemini: A soft wool blanket. Sweats. Flowers from the farmer's market.

Leo: Chapsticks, new shoes and a good series found on Netflix. A leather bound journal.

Virgo: Putting on an oversized sweater or sweatshirt. Lighting candles and reading a book.

Libra: Taking risqué pictures for body positivity. Buying little pastries. Meeting a friend for lunch.

Scorpio: Buying patterned paper for projects. Having get-togethers with friends. Finding a neat magazine.

Sagittarius: Getting new pencils for sketching. Maybe even a new art pad. Making your favorite meal/food.

Capricorn: Going to a small cafe. Meeting an old friend. Buying a new perfume or scent.

Aquarius: A backpack or bag. New lingerie sets. Lacey clothing. Going to an old library.

Pisces: Cozy pj's and a hot soup. A new coffee mug or going out to a coffee shop. Pampering yourself with a bath bomb and a soft bath.

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auranxia

2 years ago

WAKANDA FOREVER SPOILERS BELOW

Am I the only one that sees Hades and Persephone vibes ?

1. Kidnaps a Princess

2. The artificial herb was created using the bracelet ( basically the pomegranate)

???

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auranxia

4 years ago

Howdy y’all

So just a clarification

there have been some misconceptions about bisexuality and what it is so I wanna clear them up! This isn’t about any other sexuality, just bisexuality.

Bisexuality is the attraction to all genders. Some bi people have a preference, some don’t. For some, gender preference is a part of it, for others, personality and who the person is is a part of it. Bisexual people are attracted to ALL genders. Bisexuality is an all inclusive gender attraction.

It’s not two or more (because two or more implies that you can be attracted to a certain amount while being exclusionary to others and that isn’t good. A preference is different from exclusion.)—it’s not gender over personality—it’s not some genders and not others—it’s not strictly preference.

If you are a bisexual person who has a preference of who you are attracted to—then cool, you are bisexual (I.e, I am bi myself, a bi nonbinary wlw, but I lean more toward women aligned people, but that doesn’t mean I’m not attracted to other genders). If you are a bisexual person who doesn’t quite know who you like but you know you are attracted to every gender under the sun, cool—you are BI. If you are a bisexual person who is like ‘fuck it’, idgaf about gender I just care about who you are, as long as your personality vibes with me I like you—gender isn’t a factor’ then you are valid and you are bi.

Bisexuality isn’t exclusionary.

(If your bisexuality excludes certain genders then that’s problematic. However, so many bi people have been screaming to the heavens for the last decade to let y’all know that , overall, exclusionary people aren’t an issue in our community—at least no the point that a lot of people make them seem. Of course there are issues of transphobes in our community…just like every community. Like even gay and lesbian sexulities dealt with early ideas and beliefs that the sexualities only catered toward people on the cis binary. Lesbian and gay people have been fighting, just like bisexual people to let y’all know that this mindset is harmful and that just bcs a few transphobic, uneducated people thought that was okay—that doesn’t reflect the community. The sexualities have adapted, called out shit, etc., esp non binary and trans people within those sexualities. Bisexuality is literally the same way but y’all don’t let bisexuals breathe…anyway)

Bisexuality is having a preference. Bisexuality isn’t having one. Bisexuality isn’t sure if you have one. Bisexuality is not giving two hells about gender. Bisexuality is an attraction to all genders, no matter how big or how small—

thanks for coming to my ted talk.

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auranxia

5 years ago