“he’s So Babygirl”

It's so funny to be diagnosed with "Pain We Can't Find The Source Of Disorder" or "Brain is Physically Fucked and we Don't Know Why Disorder" or "We Don't Know Why You Have Seizures Disorder" and instead of more research, tests, etc being performed, you're told to get Cognitive Behavioral Therapy. Bonus points if your diagnosis of Exclusion was the 1st-3rd conclusion your doctor came to.

I appreciate those posts that say “it’s ok to struggle with the simplest things.”

But most of the time I’m not in pain bcs I think it’s not ok. I know it’s ok. I’m in pain bcs I want to be able to do those things. I’m crying in my bed bcs I want to get up and dance and run and jump. I know it’s ok to not be ok. I know it’s ok to take time, I know it’s ok to be slower, I know it’s ok to need help, I know this is just a form of normal for many people.

I guess I just haven’t accepted it all yet. Bcs all I want is to be able to do more. I don’t feel I need to or have to - I want to. I desperately want to.

It's over

reading a good ass fanfic up until it said something that just makes you want to stop reading

Merry Sinsmas everyone and to All a Goodnight!

And of course, happy holidays as well!

As much as I enjoy the Christmas cheer and I suppose Charlie's never extending excitement for it, it gets rather dull, doesn't it? I must say personally Christmas is a time I dread. However, I hope you enjoyed it and your families didn't drive you too wild. Hah!

Charlie as always put up quite a show at the Hotel and I suppose, I enjoyed myself for once. Angel Dust insisted on singing Santa Baby by Eartha Kitt which is, of course, in character. Gift exchanging was quite interesting.

Lucifer as always, showered his darling Charlie in gifts (which I outdid by the way). Ah, the quality of the gifts is what matters which is what Lucifer has yet to realize. Even a singular incredible thoughtful gift can outdo all else. (It was the Heathers musical on tape directly from the Human World, if anyone was wondering. She hasn't even seen it yet!).

Niffty...well, I gave her cyanide! I'm sure she'll do right by it! Biochemical warfare should be quite fun in the hotel, hm?

I'm a wonderful gift giver aren't I! Don't be shy, compliments are welcome as always.

man this guy is my favourite character (throws rocks at him) (throws rocks at him) (throws rocks at him) (throws rocks at him (thr

I think there's some medias that you just cannot meaningfully engage with if your main priority is shipping

An Alastor Theory

So we have seen that Alastor didn't change his coat for Halloween...

...nor for Christmas...

So what if his coat means something for him.

That's will explain his reaction with Sir Pentious in ep. 2 and why he hurried to the tailor.

I think he changed it rarely and that's why it is "ragged"

Maybe the coat was a gift from someone?

THIS

I'm a she/her woman BECAUSE I IDENTIFY AS SUCH not over genitalia or anything

And no it wasn't much indoctrination either in my case because none of my parents cared what I preferred to play with as a kid as long as I had fun

And I get the thing to be still referred as she/her as a kid still but if I had a problem with that I'd voice it as a kid too. I never did and it wasn't because they wanted to call me a she/her and I was like "makes sense/I fear their judgment" (they tried to tell me to play with feminine things but I also refused and they didn't mind either nor get mad etc.)but because I felt 100% comfortable with the label. I was a rather vocal kid and teen who never let my parents decide for me no matter what

So basically..yes

Gender is NOT the genitalia

Hot take, but cis people have gender identities. They aren't the gender they identify as because of their genitalia or what their birth certificate says. They're only cis because they identify with a gender and it happens to match their government documentation. Cis men aren't men because they're "obviously" men for having a penis. They're men because they identify as men. It's the self-identification that dictates this, not any other factor, even for cis folks. And we should be framing it this way. A cis man identifies as a man and a cis woman identifies as a woman. There is no automatic or inherent gender.

I cleaned up some backgrounds for screenshot edit purposes would love to be linked if used just so I can see your art :3c

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