My Name is Derek and my wife is Kristy. We have been married for eight years and are both in our early thirties. We had just opened a Party Store where we sell party supplies and put on parties for various groups of people. We have catered parties for local dignitaries, weddings, fundraisers and even the occasional bachelor or bachelorette parties.
The business had been very successful so far. We were trying to build a solid reputation as a place you can count on for a great party. We are usually pretty busy and Kristy and I do most of the work. We have to hire temps occasionally to help out when the party is too large for just the two of us to handle.
When it comes to the bachelor or bachelorette parties we usually hire strippers, as it seems all of these parties want this type of entertainment. We also work with various local bands to work the parties.
I usually work the bachelor parties with a temp helper because Kristy feels uncomfortable around them and she usually works the bachelorette parties with a temp for the same reason. It seems that usually the guys or gals which ever it may be have a better time if someone’s husband or wife is not around.
We had a call from a local politician whose son was getting married and he wanted to pay for the bachelor party. The usual request for liquor, food and strippers was on the list. There was going to be about eight guys at the party and it was going to be in a ritzy local hotel in one of the suites.
The party was in three days, which was very short notice to get things put together. We charge more for a short-term notice party, which is nice for the bank account but makes it a mad dash to put all of it together.
Kristy got on getting the food together and I jumped on getting the temp help lined up and the dancers for the party.
Everything was set for the party and it was none too soon as the party was tomorrow night at 7pm.
The day of the party Kristy and I were loading the van with the food and decorations when my cell phone rang. It was my temp help for the evening and he had an emergency and could not make it. There was no time to set up more help, as we had to be at the hotel in one hour to begin getting ready.
Kristy shrugged and said, “I guess we have no choice but for me to go and help with this one.”
I said, “Just help me get it set up and you can leave. It’s only eight guys and I can handle that easily.”
I got in the van and she got in our car and followed me to the hotel. We got everything carried up to the room and Kristy started on decorations while I set up the food table.
We had just completed the set up and Kristy said, “I’ll go down stairs to the lobby and just hang out in case you need help you can just call me.”
She had only been gone about 5 minutes when the guys started showing up for the party. They had apparently already started the party somewhere else as they had been drinking.
I introduced myself, showed them the food table and started to pour them their first drinks. One of the guys had brought some porn movies to play on the big screen TV in the room. Things were going along just fine then my cell phone rang.
It was one of the girls we had hired to dance for the party. They had been in an auto accident on the way and were going to the hospital.
It was too late to find another dancer for the party. This party was plagued with problems from the start and it was not getting any better.
To make matters worse one of the guys came over and asked, “Are there not supposed to be girls here for this?”
I told him, “Yes, there has been a slight glitch and I was trying to find replacements.”
I called Kristy who was still in the lobby and told her of the dilemma. She said, “Let me get on the phone and see what I can do. We have to do something quickly we don’t want to screw up this party.”
I said, “See what you can do and let me know.”
I served the guys some more food and another round of drinks. So far they seemed content on eating, drinking and watching the porn movies. They were starting to get rowdier and joking with each other. About thirty minutes had passed and I had not heard from Kristy. I was getting nervous and afraid we were going to mess up this party, which would not be good considering whom, it was for.
There was a knock at the door and I went to get it hoping it was the dancers. I opened the door and there stood Kristy. She was in a long evening gown and looked fabulous.
I asked, “What are you doing here?”
She replied, “I could not find any dancers and had to do something. We cannot blow a party this early in our business or we might as well close shop. So I went to the clothing shop in the lobby and bought what I needed”
I looked at her and said, “You can’t do this.”
She looked at me and said, “I never have but I wouldn’t say I can’t”
I replied, “I didn’t mean you can’t but rather you’re my wife.”
She said, “Do you have another suggestion?”
Then one of the guys walked to the door and let out a holler, “Alright the girls are here!”
He reached past me and ushered Kristy into the room. He led her over to where the guys were and said, “Look at what I found on our doorstep.”
The guys really got excited then.
Kristy is a beautiful woman with a body that would put many strippers to shame. She stands about 5'7" tall with long blonde hair. Her figure is a beautiful hourglass shape with large breasts, a firm flat stomach from working out and a beautiful tight little ass. She was in a pretty red sequined gown and a pair of 5" heels that set off her dancer legs. Needless to say she looked absolutely edible.
I was very nervous about this whole arrangement and didn’t think she knew what she was getting into.
One of the guys went to put on some music with the porn movie playing on the big screen still. I saw Kristy’s eyes widen as she saw the porn movie playing.
One of the guys said, “Come on baby take it off!”
Kristy was nervous and stalling for time, “Can’t you at least buy a girl a drink first?”
One of the guys yelled over to me, “Barkeep can we get the lady a drink?”
I poured Kristy her favorite drink and made it especially strong, as I knew she was going to need it.
I carried the drink to her as she held out her shaking hand and smiled at me and said, “Thank-You.”
One of the guys patted the seat next to him on the couch and said, “Come over here babe and sit next to me and my soon to be married buddy.”
Kristy walked over to the couch and sat down between the two guys. The one immediately put his hand on her thigh that was exposed from the slit in her dress. The other guy put his arm around her shoulder. She was the center of attention, as they all seemed to huddle around her.
One of the guys asked, “Are you bringing some friends with you?”
Kristy responded, “I was but something came up and they could not make it so you just get little ole me.”
The one said, “From the looks of you one will be plenty.”
Kristy smiled and said, “I don’t know about that but I guess we will have to make due.”
I poured all of the guys another drink and mixed them strong. I was hoping I could just get them so drunk they would pass out and not need a dancer.
One of them said, “If you’re the only one coming let’s get on with the show.”
Kristy said, “My, my what impatient guys you are. What’s the hurry we have all night. Let me get another drink to get the mood just right.”
She started to get up and the guy with his hand on her thigh said, “You don’t need to get up. Barkeep we need another drink for the lady.”
I knew she just wanted to get away and talk to me. I poured another drink for her and another for the guys. As I handed Kristy her drink she looked at me with a wild eyed look that I could not tell if it was fear or excitement but her hand was still shaking.
They guy who had his hand on her thigh had moved it further up her dress and his fingers had disappeared under her dress. The groom had moved his hand farther around her so that his hand was resting just above one of her heaving breasts.
My plan of plying them with drinks did not seem to be working. It was apparently only making matters worse.
One of the guys asked, “Honey can you do that?” as he pointed to the big screen. On the screen was a girl with a cock in her pussy and one in her mouth at the same time.
Kristy looked shocked and said, “I’m just a dancer not a hooker.”
The guy responded, “I know I was just wondering if you had every done that?”
Kristy said, “No I have not.”
One of the other guys piped in and asked, “Would you like to?” and laughed.
Kristy replied, “No I don’t believe I would.”
I walked more drinks over hoping to get to the pass out stage quicker. The groom now had his hand slipped completely over her breast and the other guy had his hand pushed further under her dress. He must be very near her pussy.
Kristy reached out her hand that was steadier now and took her drink. This time she could not look me in the eyes.
I wanted to jerk her out of here. If I didn’t have all of our money and our home invested, which we had mortgaged to start the business, I would have, but our money and our home could potentially be gone. The groom’s father was a very influential man in town who knew a lot of people. I knew that is why Kristy was sitting there doing what she was doing. We could potentially be ruined financially if we failed a party this early on.
One of the guys got up and turned the music louder and yelled, “Let’s get this party started!”
I and I’m sure Kristy knew there was no more stalling. She had seen one other dancer at a party and kind of knew what was next.
Kristy stood up with a cheer from the guys. She turned and asked the guy sitting next to her, “You’re the groom are you not?”
He nods his head yes. She grabbed his hand and led him to a chair in the middle of the room. She sat him down in the chair and the rest of the guys moved their chairs for a better view.
My mind was racing as I thought she is really going to do this. She started dancing to the music. She was swaying her beautiful hips and running her hands along her tight body. She turned around and shook her cute ass in his face. He reached out and placed his hand on her ass. She then sat down on his lap and was grinding into his crotch. When she stood up it was evident that he had a hard on. The guys also noticed and made comment as he turned beet red.
Kristy seductively turned around and straddled the chair as she sat on his lap again facing him. She was grinding on him and pulled his head toward her cleavage. She buried his face into her abundant cleavage and shook her tits in his face.
She stood back up and the groom now had a raging hard on tenting from his slacks.
I noticed a twinge in my crotch and could not believe my cock was beginning to stir. I didn’t want it to but yet Kristy was so sexy and watching her was an incredible turn on.
Kristy danced to the music and reached for the zipper on the side of her dress. She unzipped it down to her hip then pulled the dress off of her shoulders. She had apparently purchased some lacy lingerie at the shop also. She used her arms to hold the dress up in the front to tease the guys.
All of them were completely mesmerized in watching my beautiful wife undress.
She let the dress fall and it caught at her hips. Her firm breasts were constrained by a beautiful white bra. She shook her chest at the groom and sat in his lap again. She pulled his head to her tits and this time he licked between her tits. She again stood up and wiggled out of the dress. It pooled on the floor at her feet and she stepped out of it.
She was wearing a white garter belt with matching lace thong panties and stockings that had the seam running up the back of them.
One of the guys yelled, “Take it off!”
I now noticed my cock was at full staff watching this sexy creature stripping for a room full of guys.
Kristy turned so her ass was facing the groom and bent over to grab her ankles. The guys in the room got up from their chairs to see the sight. She backed her ass right to his face and he leaned forward to meet it.
This brought a cheer from the guys watching. I could tell most of them had hard-ons in the room. I was getting real nervous about this now and wondered if I should stop it before it got out of hand.
She stood back up and faced me. She looked right at me and I knew this wild-eyed look was one of excitement. She was getting turned on by this attention and taking her clothes off in a room full of guys.
She quickly spun around and faced the groom. She reached for the snap on the front of her bra and unsnapped it holding the cups against her tits. She then slid the bra off her shoulders and it dropped to the floor.
Another cheer came from the group as Kristy was now standing with her big tits bared to the room. She had her back to me as she again climbed onto the groom’s lap. She leaned her tits into his face and as she did he quickly reached out and sucked one of her nipples into his mouth. She was not planning on this and jerked back. You could here the pop as his sucking mouth left her tit. She just shook her finger at him like he was a naughty little boy. She then reached for the back of his head and pulled him between her tits and shook them so they were hitting his ears.
She quickly stood back up and placed her shoe on the seat between his legs. He reached for her shoe and took it off her foot. She then placed the other one up there and he took it off.
Kristy stepped back and reached for the hooks holding up her stockings. She slowly was swaying to the music as she unhooked each one. She again put her foot between his legs and onto his crotch this time and rubbed her foot up and down on his dick. He reached for the top of her stocking and pulled it down her long sexy leg. She raised her foot just as he pulled the stocking all the way off. She then repeated the same with her other stocking.
She bent over the groom putting her hands on the back of the chair so that her tits were hanging in his face. She had to know what was going to happen next. He leaned his head back and sucked a nipple into his mouth. She did not jerk back this time and let him suck on her tit. The guys in the room were mixed on where to look as their buddy sucked her tit or at her thong covered ass and pussy visible to them.
Her ass was facing my direction and I could see a wet spot forming on her panties. She was completely turned on by this now. I was standing back by the food table and bar watching. I started rubbing my hard cock through my slacks. She stood back up and turned around so she was facing me and glanced my direction. Her eyes opened wide as she saw me rubbing my cock.
She sat down on the groom’s lap and started bouncing up and down on him. Her big full tits were bouncing and her nipples were hard and she was so excited that her areola was puckered. She glanced my direction again and gave me a devilish smile at the fact that I had a hard on and was rubbing it through my pants.
The room was silent from talking and cheering at this point as most of the room was rubbing their cocks at the sight of this vixen dry humping their buddy.
Kristy stood back up and turned her ass toward the groom and reached for her panty waistband. She swayed to the music and pulled the waistband out and up and down a few times to tease. She then bent over with her ass in the groom’s face and pulled the panties down to her knees and let them drop to the floor. She shook her ass in his face and he reached out to grab her ass. I know Kristy was not a professional stripper but most strippers I have ever seen at these kinds of parties leave their panties on.
With her now completely naked in a room full of drunk, horny guys I was worried again that she had taken this way too far.
Kristy again made eye contact with me and saw that I was still rubbing my cock. She quickly turned and bent over with her head in the groom’s lap.
Her ass and pussy were splayed wide open as she simulated giving the groom a blowjob.
Then, it happened way too quickly. One of the guys was on Kristy and had shoved his cock into her pussy. I had not even noticed he had pulled it out of his pants. He was immediately humping her as she was bent over the groom. She tried to stand up but the groom had hold of the back of her head.
I knew I should have gone to her rescue but my mind and my dick were telling me to watch this beautiful women being fucked. The groom used his free hand to unzip his fly and pulled out his cock. He still had Kristy held down. She had taken the groom’s cock into her mouth and was sucking it while the guy behind her was pumping away at her pussy. The groom had removed his hand and Kristy was now sucking his cock on her own free will.
I never thought I would like watching my wife being fucked by another man. I figured I would kick the guy’s ass. Somehow the woman who had been taking her clothes off in the room full of men was not my wife she was a stripper and my mind did not register that was the case.
The guy that was fucking her was moaning. Then his knees slightly buckled and he shot his load into my Kristy.
“My Kristy,” I thought. Yes my wife was now the center of attention.
The guy who shot his load pulled out and quickly another guy took his place and started banging into her pussy with full long strokes. I looked around the room and all of the guys had their cocks out and was stroking them waiting for their turn.
My cock was hard watching Kristy’s beautiful body bent over and being fucked by these guys. She was sucking the groom for all she was worth. Her large full tits were swinging beneath her as she was being fucked hard from behind. She reached a hand back and was playing with her clit as she was being fucked.
The second guy moaned and shot his load into her pussy. Kristy then turned around and sat down on the groom’s hard cock. She was riding it up and down stroking him with her pussy.
She glanced over at me I’m sure to see what my reaction was as she was being gang fucked. I had my cock out of my pants and was stroking it. She had a look of pure lust in her eyes. One I don’t think I had ever seen in her before. Our eye contact was interrupted as another guy stepped in front of her and she sucked his cock into her mouth.
I moved to a chair and sat down with my cock in my hand. I had a front row seat to watch my wife take on these eight guys.
The groom was ready to explode and threw his head back as he shot his load into her. The guy she was sucking also moaned and jerked a load into her mouth. She swallowed all of it with only a small amount running from the corner of her mouth.
She climbed off of the groom’s cock and crawled across the floor to where I was sitting. She reached up and pulled my cock into her mouth. As she did this another guy got on his knees behind her and plunged into her pussy. I could see his cock as it slid in and out of her pussy. I looked down at her and she was looking up at me.
The kid in her pussy lasted about 30 seconds and shot his load into her. She had one hand wrapped around the base of my cock and the other was massaging her clit.
The next guy took his spot behind Kristy. This kid was well hung and showed no mercy as he plunged into her wet pussy. You could hear the squish noise as he penetrated her. I looked at her eyes as this kid slid into her and her eyes that had been almost squinted shut were now wide open. She was still massaging her clit and I could tell from her trembling she was ready to cum.
She pulled her mouth off of my cock and laid her head on my lap and moaned, “OOOHHHHH FFUUUCCCKKK!” She jerked into an orgasm and I knew from experience that her pussy was contracting tightly around the guys cock. He pulled out of her pussy and laid his thick meat on her ass and shot his load onto her back and ass.
She started sucking my cock again this time she was stroking it as well. I was not going to hold out much longer as she was sucking me deeper into her throat than ever before. I shot my load deep into her throat. She gagged slightly from the intensity and volume of my orgasm.
She was still on her knees and was wobbling slightly. Another guy came up to her and stuck his cock into her face and she eagerly wrapped a hand around it and sucked it into her mouth. The one guy who had not cum yet stood next to her waiting his turn so she took her hand and started stroking his cock.
One of the first guys came back for seconds and she grabbed his cock with her other hand and was stroking it. She was sucking and bobbing on the one guys cock and stroking two others. There was a puddle of cum beneath her and the cum on her back was now running down the crack of her ass.
The one guy she was stroking started to moan and shot his load onto her body. His cum splashed onto her face and tits. The guy she was sucking also started to cum and as he did he withdrew and shot his load onto her hair, face and tits. The one guy who had come back for seconds also quickly shot his load and hit her tits with his cum.
Kristy leaned back onto the floor and sat down leaning against my leg. She was exhausted. Some of the guys were coming at her with cocks in hand and I said, “Guys, that’s enough for one night.”
I got up and helped Kristy to her feet then led her to the bathroom and shut the door. I started the shower and helped her get inside it. She just stood there in a trance letting the warm water splash over her body.
I asked her, “Kristy are you ok?”
She turned and looked at me with tears welling in her eyes, “Yes. Are you ok?”
I replied, “Yes, I’m ok. You get cleaned up and I’ll be back in just a minute. I need to see what is going on in the other room.”
I went into the main room of the suite and the guys were all sitting down having another drink and eating some more food. The porno was still playing on the big screen TV. They were all laughing and talking about what just happened and how great the girl was.
One of them I overheard was, “Damn she is hot and one of the tightest little pussies I have ever fucked.”
Another one said, “That girl could suck the brass off a doorknob!”
One of them saw that I had come out of the bathroom and asked, “After she gets cleaned up can we have another go at her?
I replied after biting my lip, "Guys don’t you think that sucking and fucking nine guys in one night is enough for any girl?”
He looked at me and said, “But she is fine! I may not get another chance to fuck a babe like her!”
“Guys, there will be no more tonight with her. She is getting cleaned up and will be leaving.” I stated.
I walked around and gathered up her clothes and took them into the bathroom. She was still in the shower and when I came in she turned off the water and stepped out.
She looked at me again with tears in her eyes, “Honey I’m sorry! I don’t know what came over me. I was simply stripping like I was supposed to and then it got out of control. I was not expecting that any of this was going to happen.”
I pulled her to me and held her trembling body next to me then told her, “Honey it’s OK! I could have stopped it but, and I thought I would never say this but, I enjoyed watching you.”
She looked up at me and said, “WHAT?”
I looked her square in the eyes and said, “I never would have thought so either. You are so sexy and watching you fuck those guys and knowing you were getting off on it. I was hard the entire time. In fact if you liked it I think we may have found a solution for a dancer for all upcoming bachelor parties.”
She sat down on the toilet seat and looked at the floor soaking in what I just said.
She looked at me finally, “I don’t want to hurt your feelings or for one minute you to think I don’t love you more than the world itself. But, I did enjoy it. It was such a rush all of these guys wanting me. I felt like a slut but yet very sexy.”
I looked at her and said, “Why don’t you get dressed so we can go home. I will get things wrapped up out here and get the van loaded and then come back for you.”
She asked, “Are the guys leaving? I don’t know if I can walk through there I feel embarrassed.”
I said, “I think the guys are planning on partying the rest of the night and sleeping it off here.”
I left the bathroom to clean up our stuff and load it in the van. The guys were really drunk now and three of them had already passed out on the floor or on the couch.
I went to the bathroom for Kristy. She was dressed again in her gown and I said, “You don’t have to worry most of them are passed out already.”
I opened the door, stepped through and she followed me. One of the guys was drunk and slurred, “Hay Baby will you suck my cock again?”
Kristy looked at him and smiled, “Not tonight Hon but maybe I’ll see you at another bachelor party someday.”
We left the room and headed down through the lobby. I walked Kristy to her car and kissed her. I asked, “I guess this means you want a job as our full-time stripper for bachelor parties?”
She smiled at me, “As long as you are always in the room and it doesn’t bother you. Yes!”
I replied, “I without a doubt will be in the room, watching.”
We hugged each other. She got in her car and I walked to the van.
As I was driving home I could not get the images out of my mind. All I could see was cocks sliding in and out of my wife’s pussy and the fact that I was enjoying watching it really had me floored.
When we got home I went to the shower after unloading the van. I went into the bedroom and crawled into bed. Kristy was still awake and rolled over to kiss me. As she was kissing me she reached for my cock and started stroking it.
She said in the darkness, “You know I didn’t get to fuck my favorite cock tonight.”
I rolled her onto her back and said; “We can fix that problem right now.
So you are now one of the millions of women who learned she has a husband with fantasies about you having sex with other men. Welcome to our club. Hopefully you’re past the shock. Maybe you have even reached that point where there is no need for me to tell you how lucky you are. If you’re not then you WILL reach that point if you follow what other wives like me have learned.
If you’re like most of us, you were unaware that your husband had these desires. You were living the married life thinking that you knew your husband better than he knew himself. Ha! Too funny.
Depending on how long you’ve been married, things may or may not have cooled off in the bedroom. Face it. The rut comes to every bedroom. If it hasn’t don’t be lulled into thinking it won’t happen to you. Some of you may have already had affairs or even had thoughts of leaving your husband out of sheer boredom. Then you somehow found out about his secret fantasy, and hopefully decided that there is a solution for the both of you. Lucky you, even if you don’t know it yet.
He wants you to have sex with another man. Wow. Unsure about it? Don’t feel alone. I did too. But take a moment and think about the potential. See all of those other unhappy women out there in boring, sexless marriages? See all those other women around you having affairs, lying to themselves and their husbands, and risking messy divorces? Don’t laugh at them. They were once you, or could have been you. But now you will end up different from them. If you read this and follow it you’re going to find yourself on a road that will return you to sexual fulfillment, feeling as confident as when you were first married, in love with your husband again and appreciating him more than ever.
You are on the way to becoming a Hot Wife.
A Hot Wife is a woman who is free to have sex with others with her husband’s knowledge, approval and encouragement. The level of her husband’s involvement can vary. In fact it will be up to YOU. Some wives play completely on their own, with no interaction with her husband. Others enjoy their husband watching or participating. However, in all these relationships the wife is free to play with others, while the husband remains completely monogamous and faithful only to her.
Sound crazy? Well believe me when I tell you it is easy to do and your sex life will be better than you imagine. In this new relationship the husband is often called a cuckold, which just means a man with a cheating wife. Of course cheating is a misnomer, since the wife’s actions are not hidden from the husband, and he is very aware of her activities. In fact his awareness and approval is one of the most important ingredients. It will turn him on like nothing you’ve ever done before.
I assume you’re reading this because you’ve finally found out about your husband’s desires and you are contemplating the Hot Wife lifestyle. Good for you, but you may want some advice.
First, go slowly. Do not rush it. Having a husband that enjoys this lifestyle is different, so you need to nurture the relationship first and foremost, while moving into the lifestyle slowly. It might take time before you are comfortable having full on sex in front of him, or he may take time to become accustomed to watching or knowing you are out being intimate with other men. What you want to do is encourage his desires for you to be with other men, and make it as pleasurable for him as it is for you.
If you go slowly and follow my advice, in time you will have a husband that will let you do anything sexually. Anything! And he will want you to do more. He will find himself anticipating it as much as you (maybe more than you). He will get his sexual satisfaction from YOUR encounters with other men, and most importantly he will be drawn to you like never before, and more in love with you than at any time in your marriage!
In the Hot Wife lifestyle there are three levels of involvement for your husband:
1. You meet other men alone with no involvement from your husband. He may never know them or meet the other men in your life. You meet them on your own, and make all arrangements without any approval from your husband. The other men may or may not know about your lifestyle, or be aware that your husband knows about them. They may not even know you’re married, if you choose to remove your rings and pretend to be single.
2. You meet other men together with your husband, with him knowing them, and them knowing of him. However any interaction between both men is more on a social or perhaps friendship level. Your husband is not involved in any sexual activities between you and the other man. Your husband could even be the one who finds other men or helps make arrangements for you to meet them (your “dates”). But your husband is not included in your sexual encounters.
3. Having sexual relations with other men in your husband’s presence, or even engaging in some sexual play that involves all three of you. In the classic cuckold arrangement you engage in sexual play with your lover while your husband watches, but he does not play at all.
As an extension of this situation, there can be involvement of the husband in the classic ménage-a-trois arrangement, or traditional three ways. This could involve any degree of sex, which all three agree upon. Some wives prefer their husband be involved sexually and that is your choice. As you will see this will all become about YOUR preferences.
Any of these levels can be appropriate, depending on the couple and what they prefer. It’s important to know where you, and to a lesser extent your husband, wish to take things, so open communication is important to establish your goals and boundaries. Just make sure that the “other” man fully understands everything as well. It’s important for him to know upfront where he fits into the couple’s relationship. It’s also important that he respect any boundaries you set out (you set the boundaries, NOT your husband).
With proper techniques, a new Hot Wife can quickly learn how to get the most from her sexual encounters AND help her husband find new levels of pleasure from a more passive role than he is likely to have experienced earlier in your marriage. This takes time though, as most husbands are accustomed to being the spouse in charge.
As you begin, you MUST remember one very important fact. Hot Wife is not just about sex. It’s also about CONTROL. If you are like most women, your husband has been in control so far in your marriage. Right? Well, now you can change that.
Hot Wife is about what YOU want. YOUR sexual pleasure. YOUR sexual control. I know it sounds strange. But once you’ve experienced it you WILL enjoy it immensely! Think YOU not HIM. As selfish as it may sound at first, doing so will turn him on more than anything you’ve ever done yet! The change in you by itself will begin to arouse him.
Now, here’s what to do the first few times. After that, once you’ve got a taste of it (and he’s thirsty for more), you can do as you damn well please. After all, you are the Hot Wife! (You won’t read stuff like this anywhere else.)
Remember rule #1 - The goal is for YOU to be in control of the sex, not him. You do what you want; when you want; and how you want; with whom you want and have him go along with it. Got it?
First, you have to set the groundwork from the beginning. If you do it right, he will be totally faithful and a perfect husband to you, as he learns to get his sexual satisfaction in the lifestyle as a result of YOUR being satisfied. Meanwhile you can have fun with your new freedom and let out the little slut that’s bottled up inside every woman.
DON’T let him decide what kind of sex or how much sex or who you should have sex with. Remember this - NO CHOICE and NO VOICE. He should have no say in whether or not you jack a man off, or if you chose to screw the entire staff of Starbucks. He should have no say in whether you go out to another mans home, or bring a man into your bedroom. He should have no say in when it happens, or whom you choose. Once you allow him to have a say, then you let the control slip back to him. That’s NOT what you want. You want to be the one in control. Trust me, YOU will love it once it happens, and HE will too (even if he doesn’t know why).
When you decide you’re going to go out and meet someone, or have someone over, just tell your husband, in a very matter of fact tone. Don’t give him a choice in the matter. Say, “I’m having someone over tomorrow evening and we’re going to spend some time in bed.” Or say, “I’m going out with someone Friday night and I plan to go home with him afterward”. That’s it. You can share as many details as you want (before and after) but don’t let him try to influence you or allow him to shape the event. Be firm. Make it clear that you are making the decision because it’s what you want. Take control of your sexuality and control that aspect of your relationship for that night. Send the message that you’re in charge.
If you want, it’s fine to tell him what’s going to happen before you do it. That is a big part of the excitement for many couples. Share all of the details you wish. But the idea is to show him that you’ve made a decision based on YOUR needs and desires, and his needs are secondary to your needs right now. Show him that you’re a horny woman who’s taken charge of getting yourself satisfied without him. The idea that you will go to another man for your sexual fulfillment will drive him crazy with lust for you (trust me!).
It’s also important to keep him involved every step of the way. Share everything. Depending on your relationship level, you may want to keep him abreast of your discussions with the other man, share details of your plans, etc. It’s important to keep him involved, but as a SPECTATOR and NOT a participant.
This creates a sexually charged experience for him, even before you have ANY sex at all! If you are having thoughts about calling someone to meet this weekend, tell him. Let the suspense and excitement build. It’s a game. Share it with him and it will excite you BOTH.
When the big day arrives to meet a man, be deliberately aloof and distant from your husband the entire day. Give him some tasks to keep him busy, maybe something that helps prepare for your evening. Perhaps send him out to buy a nice bottle of wine, or tidy up around the household.
Many couples enjoy the ritual of the husband helping the wife prepare herself for a date. You can have him help you bathe or shower, and dry you off. Have him put on your panties and stockings. I talk to my husband and tease him, I tell him to get me ready for the other man’s cock, etc.
Doing this lays the groundwork early on. It puts you in charge and creates an atmosphere where he begins to mentally relinquish his rights to you, as part of turning you over to another man. Doing this also reinforces the new power you have. It will also make the sex more intense between the two of you during the next few days, when he takes charge of you again. It’s an important part of the game that has powerful appeal, and helps bond you together.
If you are having a man over, have your husband arrange the areas where you will entertain (living room, bedroom, ect). Dim the lights. Light some candles and put on some quiet music as you wait. If he will be present in the bedroom, have him prepare an area off to the side from where he will watch.
When the man arrives, EVERYTHING should change. Discuss beforehand what your husband’s role will be. Assuming that he remains present, there are certain things you can do to set the tone, and create an unforgettable night for him AND you.
First, have it prearranged for him to sit somewhere out of the way, so that you and your lover can carry on as if your husband is NOT THERE AT ALL (this is VERY important). I usually tell the other man to ignore my husband. After the early pleasantries my husband seldom interacts with us at all. But the excitement of experiencing a new man sexually, while at the same time turning on the man I love, is difficult to explain but incredibly exciting.
When the man arrives at your home, don’t be timid and make small talk for an hour. This is a common mistake. It’s too awkward to prolong things. Everyone knows he’s there for sex. There’s no reason to delay. Since it’s all about sex, look for the first chance to break the ice and get started. This is part of your “take charge” persona that comes with the control you’ve assumed. Show your desire for the other man by initiating intimacy while your husband watches.
If I know him from previous dates I often give a full kiss to my “date” right in the doorway and linger, perhaps even lightly rub his crotch a bit, giving him a chance to return the grope.
Then I walk him into the living room, with my husband either following or already waiting for us. Depending on the man, I sometimes prefer to have an adult video playing on the TV with the volume turned down, and pleasant music playing lightly in the background. With a nice glass of wine this is a sure-fire way to get things going without much delay.
You can linger there if you want, or wildly strip off your clothes and jump on him, or lead him to the bedroom. It’s up to you. You’re the Hot Wife. Some women like to tease their husbands for a while. Others just like to plop down in the doorway and start sucking within seconds. It’s up to you. Do what turns YOU on. YOU are in charge.
My advice is to NOT look at or talk to your husband AT ALL, especially during the first few times he watches. Many women feel a need to talk to their husband for reassurance. But try to resist this.
Don’t glance at him constantly asking if it’s OK. Try to totally PRETEND HE’S NOT THERE. Watching husbands love this. They like to think they are anonymously watching you have a secret sexual affair. They want to see you lost with your lover, while they get a front row seat to the best live porn they will ever experience.
Here’s more advice for the first few times. ENJOY yourself! Put your husband out of your mind. Don’t be shy or act inhibited. Don’t be afraid to moan and scream and cry out with passion. Pay attention to your lover exactly like you would if you were totally alone with him.
Many women feel inhibited and reserved with their husband watching, but this hinders what you want to accomplish. He wants to see you in the throes of wild passion, without a care in the world (least of all worrying about your husband). It may take you some time to do it, but putting him out of your mind should be your goal.
Here’s another tip - treat your lover like you treated your husband WHEN YOU WERE DATING. Ladies, you know what this means. Let your slut come out! Plenty of oral sex. Plenty of fucking. Multiple times if possible. Give him all he wants, until he can’t see straight and you can’t walk straight! When he’s done, continue to pamper him EXACTLY as you would your husband, right up until the goodnight kiss at the door.
After he leaves, you think you’re done and now it’s time for some sleep? Surprise girl! It’s not close to being over yet.
The next step is VERY important if you want to keep doing this. It’s important that your husband support your Hot Wife life, and that he be behind you all the way. So, even if you’re tired, you must immediately turn ALL your attention to your husband. Turn off the distant, sex-starved Hot Wife games you played earlier and become ALL HIS AGAIN!
Let him reclaim you as his own. Reassure him that you’re still his wife and that you love him even MORE for allowing you this night of pleasure! Depending on the couple, you may or may not have sex right away, or even for days after (this is up to you two). He may even have masturbated earlier, while watching you. I know some husbands who just watch without a hard-on but then end up fucking their wives like madmen for days after the date. Each relationship is different. Do what’s right for you two.
But as soon as the other man departs you must be right back in your husband’s arms and become his wife and lover again. Make sure he receives the love and pleasure and release he needs to REINFORCE his desire to watch you do it again.
Over the next few days, reassure him that you love him and care about him, that you’re his wife forever. Most importantly, remind him that you LOVE the fact that he lets enjoy this lifestyle. Tell him how much you enjoyed that night. Tease him while replaying the night over and over. Tell him you can’t wait to do it again. Tell him how self-assured and unique he is to be able to share you the way he does, and how you appreciate the freedom he gives you.
Chances are you’ll be having great sex with your husband for weeks after he watches, and he will be more attentive and loving than he was before you started these games. That’s just another benefit of the lifestyle. When that happens, you’ll become hooked on the Hot Wife lifestyle, and so will he.
If you do this, the lifestyle will become an important part of your sexual relationship and it will grow into the most exciting sex life you’ve ever enjoyed together. In time, his most intense sexual pleasure will come from you HAVING SEX WITH SOMEONE ELSE, as crazy as that might sound. And what could be better for you? You get to take charge of your sex life. You get to explore new sexual horizons most married women never experience. Your husband will love and adore you more than he ever has, and you BOTH stay sexually fulfilled.
There is so much to experience in this lifestyle that you’ll never be bored. If you lay the right groundwork and do it correctly from the beginning, you can have a supportive, open-minded husband and the freedom to do whatever you want with his blessing. To me, there is no better marriage than one that is open and sexually permissive. Without my loving husband involved in my new life, I would probably have long ago been divorced and miserable by now. So get out there and get started.
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