Cuckold relationships are based on loyalty, trust and intimacy. However, the man still remains faithful to his female partner and therefore he is in a subordinate position. Although cuckold dating can be difficult, it has various potential benefits for the couple.
Benefits of Cuckold Dating
1. Fulfillment of fantasies and satisfaction
One or both partners in the partnership fulfill their lifelong fantasies since the couple shares in many different activities. Moreover, the female partner enjoys the freedom to engage in sexual adventures with other male partners outside the relationship. On the other hand, the man enjoys by knowing and/or watching his partner being intimate with another man outside their relationship. Men are satisfied when their female partners are enjoying. Therefore, even a woman in a committed relationship can go out on a date and the man loves it.
2. Builds trust
The man is fully aware of his partner’s sexual adventures and this helps to get rid of jealousy. This helps to increase trust and effective communication among partners. Additionally, both partners enjoy increased faithfulness due to the reduced thought of infidelity.
3. Builds confidence
The man feels that his wife is quite attractive since other men are ready to be intimate with her. Women gain the freedom and confidence to express their thoughts and feelings freely and openly.
4. Improved intimacy
As the cuckold couple gains intimate knowledge, their intimacy grows stronger too. This is because the couple enjoys new excitement in a variety of ways making it quite easy to attain physical satisfaction.
5. Increased interest and attention
The man wants to please his female partner more in many ways. Therefore, during cuckold dating his interest in his partner’s looks and clothing increases and as a result his partner’s wardrobe improves. Most importantly, the man becomes more caring and romantic.
6. Closer friendships
The couple enjoys intimate relationships with other people outside the relationship which helps to create stronger bonds with such friends.
Despite having many benefits, it is very important for the couple to fully understand what cuckold dating involves and come to an agreement before attempting any encounters. Most importantly, it is vital for the couple to understand how they can make the most out of the cuckold relationship.
How to Make Cuckold Relationships Work
1. Practice cuckold dating in the right way
Since the male partner gets sexually aroused by knowing and/or watching his partner getting intimate with other men, there should be a level of intimacy and trust in the cuckold relationship. Trust issues should be addressed first in order to decide if the cuckold relationship is best at the moment. This can be determined by; the state of your sex life, how long the relationship has lasted and the level of trust. This is very important especially for married people who want to have cuckold relationships.
2. Be loyal and set down the rules
Each partner needs to clearly understand that the practice is sexual. Therefore, other feelings and emotions should be on one side in order to reassure the man that his female partner will not develop any emotional relationships with third parties. In order to be on the safe side, this fear should be addressed before any encounter occurs. Cuckoldry should be a healthy and normal sexual fetish and not a practice that can damage the lives of those involved. In order to differentiate between the emotional aspect and sexual acts of the practice and secure the relationship, the couple should have a certain level of confidence and self esteem. Therefore, the couple should have a frank discussion about their concerns, what they want out of cuckoldry, and what it will entail. This helps to determine whether the practice will have any effects on the relationship and its future.
3. Keep it fun
There should be no feelings of guilt and betrayal during or after the act. This can only be achieved if the couple views their relationship as a sexually varied relationship that is open to experimentation and fun rather than a shameful or sinful one. Cuckold dating has many components besides sex. Components such as loyalty, devotion and trust should take precedence over sexual acts.
4. Be safe
Cuckold couples need to choose the third party once they have decided to practice cuckoldry. Since it’s the woman who normally has sexual relations with the third party, she must be completely comfortable with the new partner. The third party should be a like-minded person who can be trusted. This makes it easier for the three members to discuss in detail what they want out of the practice.
5. Communication
Communication is vital in cuckold dating since issues will have to be addressed in a timely and sensible manner in order to avoid complications.
The benefits of cuckold dating are greater than what most people imagine. The benefits listed above should give couples an idea of how cuckolding can be of great value especially to their relationship. Several swinger couples are also into cuckolding. Several join sites to meet other like minded individuals. The only advice here is that when you create a profile for free, simply let other member know that you are looking for a cuckold relationship.
Most of what I remembered about the great city of Gwalior came from my 5th or 6th grade history textbook. And my memories were as foggy as the evening of the day I landed in MP.
Excited to be in Gwalior for the first time, I was just in time to catch the Light and Sound show at the Man Singh Palace also known as the Man Mandir Palace. And what a majestic show it was - under the open sky, the palace lit up in wonderful colours, the history of the city rendered in the baritone of Amitabh Bachchan! It was nothing less than a grand theatre!
Built in 8th century, the fort stands tall upon the Gopachal hill. The exact period of the fort’s construction is not clear, but historians say that it started in the 8th Century. According to the folklore, one day Suraj Sen who suffered from leprosy, found himself very thirsty atop the hill. Sant Gwalipa offered him sacred water from a pond, which cured him of the disease. Out of gratitude, Suraj Sen fortified the hilltop and named the citadel Gwalior to honour the saint.
Around the 15th century, the fort came under Man Singh Tomar, a king who was known as one of the greatest connoisseur of art and music. He transformed the fort into a grand architectural marvel that even Babur referred it as the “pearl amongst the fortresses of India”. After being captured by the Mughals, the fort was used as a jail. By the end of their reign, they had destroyed almost everything precious. Finally, in 18th Century, it flourished again in the hands of Maharaja Scindia.
Today, the monument is a huge fortress sprawling across an area of 3 square km surrounded by a concrete wall of sandstone. It comprises of six palaces, three temples, and several water tanks. One of its most famous temples is Teli-ka-Mandir built in the Dravidian style with an exquisite sculpted exterior. Another fascinating temple is the Saas-Bahu Temple, with two asymmetrical pillars. The other palaces are Jahangir Mahal, the Karan Palace, the Shah Jahan Mahal and the Gurjari Mahal, built by Man Singh for Mrignayani, his favourite wife. Gurjari Mahal currently is an archeological museum with an impressive collection, some of which dates back to 1st century AD.
Totally engrossed in the stories, I had walked down the lanes of history. I looked around to see the most beautiful view - a modern cityscape of Gwalior. The city was lit up!
Early next morning, I returned to witness the monument and relive all the stories I had heard the night before. We started off our visit with the Man Mandir palace or the Chit Mandir for the rich ceramic mosaics encrusting its facade. It was absolutely breathtaking made out of sandstone with stunning motifs on coloured tiles- everything speaking volumes about craftsmanship beyond time. My guide Puneet ji narrated many more wonderful tales that described the symbolism of the motifs as well as showed me the secret little telephonic tunnel the king used to converse with his queens.
The Diwan-e-aam and Diwan-e-khas music halls made for the queens to see performances while honouring the purdah system, have some exquisite grillwork. Lotus, which signifies Lord Brahma is a motif that keeps re-appearing across numerous places.
The royal seal can also be seen in the main hall.
Raja Man Singh’s bedroom has beautiful brackets which once held stunning mirror work like a Sheesh Mahal. Taking cue from this, I began reimagining the grandeur of the place.
I could also see the Gurjari Mahal situated below the palace, which was built as one of the conditions set by Mrignayani to marry Raja Man Singh. The other two conditions were that she should get water from her village river (which was the secret of her strength and beauty) at the new palace, and that she would fight each war alongside the King.
A leap into history, the Man Singh Palace has left me inspired in many many ways.
About the artist
Neethi Goldhawk is an independent illustrator and textile print designer who loves drawing all things dreamy, inspired by nature and life. She has illustrated for platforms like Redbull Amaphiko and Launchora. Her pen name (Goldhawk) was concocted in the crowded space of her mind full of absurd characters, who are but little children at heart. She is an avid Tumblr blogger and can be found here
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