The Prince And The Showgirl (1957) Dir. Laurence Olivier

lil’ kim - the keenan ivory wayans show (1998)

the concept of failure ₊˚⊹♡₊˚

there is no such thing as failure. everything that seems to go wrong, every little inconvenience, whatever makes you grit your teeth and stress out and beat yourself up for; none of it means you've failed at whatever you're trying to do, because failure simply does not exist.

failure literally means lack of success. and that word is allowed into your vocabulary? you're allowed to describe anything you do as a failure? as "i've failed?"

no matter what you're trying to be, where you are, how you're trying to live, what your current life looks like, the way you live, the way you talk, where you come from, what you do, what you say, none of it can possibly fail, even if it seems that way. because everything in your life made for you, by you.

everything is the way it is because everything is always aligning in your best interests, whether it seems like it or not. whatever seems like its "failing" now is to show you there is so much more coming in the future.

think about it for a sec. everything you've classed as a failure in your life has taught you something. say there was somebody in your life, close to you or not, that changed you not for the better. you wouldn't be reading this if you hadn't learnt anything from that. it wasn't time wasted, you shouldn't have been wiser, none of these things people tell themselves when things like this happen. it was meant to happen regardless because it was supposed to teach you and evolve you into what you are and where you're headed now.

no matter what you do, you cannot fail, because no matter what you do it is always going to aid you in the future in some way or another, whether it be to teach you a lesson, help somebody in a similar situation, use your experience in a future scenario, anything you can think of, whether said action is bad or good.

your internal reality reflects onto your external reality. even when you have such a belief that everything you do is bound to fail, even then it's still impossible because you are succeeding in making everything fail for yourself. that is still success. that is still not failing.

please stop being so concerned over this. whatever you're trying to do, whatever you're trying to pursue, whatever you're trying to achieve, please stop stressing over failure. no matter what happens, you can not fail. you got this.

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Journaling Ideas!!

— the 2025 princess guide:

Do this if you're fed up with manifesting and are ready for the last resort.

I want you to affirm

Affirm your fucking ass off.

I want you to affirm and persist no matter what.

Affirm and persist.

Yes, I am talking about robotic affirmations. Just affirm and affirm what you want no matter what. Because like I said you are fed up and you have tried everything so you just need it no matter what.

So just affirm your new story. Affirm 10k or 100k it doesn't matter. Do not check the 3d. Do not ask where it is because at this moment what you're affirming for is yours.

When you feel like doubting just imagine this statement: Just affirm and not question it.

And do exactly that affirm and not question it. Don't check the 3d for confirmation, don't check the time. Just affirm and affirm.

If you're really fed up with manifestation I am hoping that you won't feel like questioning this technique as well

I'll tell you now that this isn't a technique, you aren't affirming from lack. Just for once stop questioning and start doing.

Give me your results. Now don't come after me saying I've been affirming for this many days and it's still not there because then you're not doing what I'm asking you to do. Don't second guess, don't question and don't give up. Affirm, affirm, affirm.

Take this as a last resort if you are fed up and just want it somehow and you will get what you want. This is a promise.

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good girl blush by carolina herrera

swarovski crystal heart small hoop earrings

juicy couture black tracksuit

new balance 550s bubblegum

primadonna necklace from HeavenSent (if stock)

Barbie face, Pretty waist, Bratz attitude

building a new life and identity⋆.ೃ࿔*:･🧁

building a new identity and life for urself is actually easier than it sounds. u only need to commit to the new identity.

WHO IS THE PERSON THAT U WANT TO BE ;

how do they act? what is their education? that’s the first question to ask urself. i talked about a garden analogy in one of my previous posts but just in case u missed that i’ll remind u:

so basically imagine urself as a gardener and ur life is ur garden. it’s boundless. u can fill the garden with flowers 🌸 and plants, anything u desire really. think of ur desires as the flowers that u fill ur garden 🪴 with. the plants that u water the most or the pay the most attention to will grow beautifully. this is how manifestation is. 

so what i’ve been doing lately is keeping 2-3 affirmations on loop in my brain whenever i get a minute to. (kinda like when u put something on queue in ur mind) when im doing mindless activities or something. i’ll repeat the affirmations in my mind OR out loud. but i’ll only do this when i want to. (cuz nothing in manifestation should be forced) 

doing this, i kinda imagine my affirmations as watering my manifestations 🪷. now that we’ve established setting up ur garden, let’s FILL it. (this is the funnest part) i want u to write down who u desire to be as though u were already that person living that life. so you’d title ur page (who i am) 

my name is ___ i am ___ years old 

ur personality and character traits 

ur skills and talents 

ur appearance 

ur self concept and how life treats u 

ur education 

ur relationships

how long it takes u to get everything u want 

literally EVERYTHING. this is scripting. ur creating a script in which ur reality will follow. next we need to PRACTICE the script. 

how do we do that? being delulu, affirming, manifestation exercises, daydreaming, SATS, literally PRETENDING. fulfilling urself in ur imagination is u practicing the script. 

once the script is persisted in enough and well practiced you’ll see it play out in ur life. congratulations, you’ve built a new life and identity for urself <3 (this is a remake of one of my old posts in my newer style)

Study affirmations

🏹 Studying is very easy for me.

🏹 People are always in awe of how easily I'm able to understand and retain information and get good marks.

🏹 I'm the smart friend in the friend group.

🏹 I study multiple courses at a time and yet score perfectly.

🏹 I'm a genius.

🏹 I'm a prodigy even though i didn't realise it until recently.

🏹 I thought I was an average student but i didn't realise how easy it is for me to study and get great marks.

🏹 Everyone idolizes me when it comes to being an idol student.

🏹 People are in awe of my knowledge.

🏹 I study when I'm tired because it helps me relax.

🏹 I do not waste my time.

🏹 I sometimes even hyperfocus on my course because it's so damn interesting!

🏹 I'm the Queen/King who always fascinates people with my presence.

Love you. ❤️