HOW TO ACTUALLY FEEL FULFILLED
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Hey Upper East Siders, Gossip Girl Here. Three little birds sat on my window, and they told me that some of manhattans finest elite, aren’t feeling so…elite.
And i’ll tell you, that you don’t need to worry.
People may give you advice on how to feel fulfilled, but doesn’t mean it will fulfill you.
Because little does your naive self know, that they’re just telling you what makes them feel fulfilled, not what makes you feel fulfilled.
No, I’m not talking about the fulfilment of “Yeah, I’m a God” that lasts 3 minutes. I’m talking about true fulfilment. The one that takes you places. The places you want to be. The long term fulfilment. The unshakeable fulfilment, because you know you are who you want to be.
But firstly, do you understand that your imagination is your real & only reality? If not -> CLICK HERE
Here’s how:
STEP 1: Decide what makes you feel fulfilled.
Is it affirming?
Is it visualising?
Is it scripting?
Is it just simply deciding that you have it?
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Want to know which method of fulfilment is best for you? -> CLICK HERE
STEP 2: Do what fulfills you every time your desire comes to mind. Fulfill yourself until the feeling of desire completely vanishes. You can compare it to your soul feeling some sort of hunger, feed your inner self until you no longer feel the need to. Because you are fulfilled. Fulfill yourself until you know it’s done in imagination.
Not sure what fulfils you?
Try to visualise or affirm or any method you’ve heard of, and whichever one(s) fulfill you, then those are the one(s) for you.
How do I know when i’m 100% fulfilled?
- You aren’t identifying with the 3D
- You aren’t waiting for your 3D to conform AKA being impatient.
- You feel free knowing you have what you want.
- You aren’t trying to get anything in the 3D.
- You think FROM your desire and not OF it.
- You aren’t viewing your desire as a desire, because you acknowledge that you can’t desire something you already have.
- You know that the 4D is realer than the 3D will ever be.
States to NOT occupy:
- State of lack (not accepting your desire in the 4D).
- State of waiting (waiting for the 3D to conform).
- State of failure (believing you’re doing something wrong).
- State of trying (trying to achieve something in the 3D).
REMINDERS!!!
- Mental health comes first
- You don’t have to fulfill yourself when you don’t want to.
- It is impossible for your 3D to not conform, you don’t have to assume that your 3D will conform.
- Your 3D reflects who you are. So give it something new to reflect.
What People Think The State Of The Wish Fulfilled Is:
- Complete bliss and happiness.
- Thinking OF their desire.
What The State Of The Wish Fulfilled actually is:
- Knowing that your desire is YOURS in imagination (4D) and standing FIRM in that FACT.
- The FEELING OF KNOWING YOU HAVE IT!!!! (Whatever feeling you get when you imagine having your desires).
What is the knowing “feeling”?
Read THIS POST
A thing that a lot of people do is, they’ll affirm “I have everything I want.”
Then they’ll observe the thought, not the FEELING it gives them. The feeling of knowing. Although the whole point of affirming is to give them the feeling. Automatically putting them in the state of the wish fulfilled.
Relish in that FEELING until you are completely satisfied.
And we all know what satisfaction feels like. Like having a delicious meal and feeling full afterwards. Like taking a nice warm bubble bath on a cold winter night.
So feel satisfied. Fulfilled.
Don’t EVER go back to the undesired state.
Read these short reminders + quotes from people who’ve manifested their dream lives. (It will save your life) —>
Reality shifting
Demystifying the basics:
In order to have a better grasp of the concept of shifting, we must address the beliefs that brought us here in the first place.
Shifting got really popular on TikTok in 2020 (thank you DracoTok) and with it, misinformation came a plenty. So let's deconstruct the notion, pull it apart, and make it as simple as we can.
To shift is to become aware of a different reality.
That's it. That's all there is to it.
Like changing the channel or flipping through the radio, all of creation is finished and all of the possible realities that you could potentially think of already exist. All you have to do is switch your awareness from one to the other.
But how did we get here? How do we do it? CAN we do it?
Well, let's see:
In order to believe in shifting in the first place, you have to at least be a little bit spiritual. And if that's the case, then ask yourself this:
Do you believe that you are the universe having a human experience? That you are the creator and the creation?
If the answer is yes, then you have a grasp of the basics.
You see, there is no fundamental separation between you and the universe. You are not a separate entity from the Cosmos.
This idea is not new. It is not some new age spiritual BS that sprouted into existence a few decades ago. It is an ancient philosophical and spiritual belief spanning back decades. Hinduism, Buddhism, and Taoism emphasize the concept of Atman (the soul) being identical to Brahman (the ultimate reality), suggesting a unity of consciousness. Many mystical traditions, from Sufism to Christian mysticism, have explored the idea of divine consciousness within the human being. Contemporary spiritual movements often incorporate this concept, emphasizing personal transformation and connection to a higher power.
In simple terms, you are all that there is, all that there was, and all that there will ever be.
So if you answered no to my previous question, read this again and tell me your thoughts.
Now that we got the basic concept out of the way, let's talk about shifting, other realities, and your moral compass.
If you agreed that shifting is becoming aware of another reality that you already exist in, and if you're on board with the notion that you are the divine, the creator, the universe herself, what is actually stopping you from shifting?
Nothing is standing in your way, nothing is blocking you from shifting. There is no more work to be done, no more attempts to fail, no more research to explore. All you have to do is let go. Release this hold that perfection, stress, and eagerness have on you, breathe in and know that you have already shifted.
It is done.
You are successful.
In the same vein, if you are completely and utterly convinced that you are the universe, you are all there is and all there will be, you are everything and nothing, what makes you so sure that your current form is your true one?
If you believe in reincarnation then you know that you have had many faces, many bodies, many races, many ages, many lives, many experiences...
Same with shifting. This reality is not the metric in which you measure someone's righteousness. It is not the one and only form in which you are stuck within forever. You are the creator, and you, as you experience yourself, already are all of the ages, all of the faces, all of the genders and the races and the ethnicities and the creations around you. You are the rock and the house and the cat and the butterfly. You are the mean neighbor who constantly complains and the little girl skipping rope on your driveway. You are the bus driver who is always grumpy and the old lady at the market who always smiles when she sees you. You are the dictator causing havoc and the victim suffering from oppression. You are both the bad and the good, because that is the essence of your experience. You are me, I am you. We are the one consciousness.
Morality is by no means subjective, but it is also your creation. You made the rules and you enforced them and you rebelled against them. You are the one and only.
So why measure someone's morality by where or who they decide to shift to? Why judge their existence and believe yourself superior for adhering to a set of rules you created? Nothing is set in stone and no two people shift to the same exact reality, so why hinder yourself? Why limit your experience?
Do you have any idea how lucky you are to know about shifting in the first place?
There are currently 8 billion people at this point in time in this reality, and you happen to be among the very few who are aware of such wonderful experience, of such divine knowledge. Are you really going to spend that time judging other people's choice of reality? And on the other hand, are you really going to let other people dictate, police, and limit your experience?
At the end of it all, we all go back to the same origin.
The one great consciousness, where there is no judgement, no superiority or inferiority complex, no finger pointing and virtue signaling. We simply exist.
Have fun on your shifting journey, know that your experience is yours and that you decide how it goes.
Be a good person, live your best lives, and spread love as much as you can ❤️
after seeing this manifesting has been quick and easy for me.
But..
this is for those who have been forgetting their power a tad bit. wake up!
(note: may sound rude, but im just reminding yalls)
💭 but im so bad when it comes to manifesting xyz
manifesting power doesn't vary from topic to topic.
💭 but i have resistance/limiting beliefs when it comes to xyz :(
they don't exist if you assume they don't.
💭 but im too mentally exhausted to manifest 😢
manifesting is constantly happening. when we say we manifest, it means we take the reins on WHAT we manifest. and you're free to take a break whenever. progress won't be affected.
💭 but the timing isn't right!
timing never matters, unless you say so.
💭 but my mind is full of negative thoughts!
negative thoughts never matter and can literally never manifest.
💭 but I'm not vibrating at a 19299393838 level frequency and im not happy 29 hours a day!1!1!😨
...seriously?
this is the law of assumption, not law of attraction. thoughts matter. feelings and your "frequency" don't.
💭 but i obsess over my desires like crazy 😕
you can be joe goldberg and still manifest fine.
💭 but what if my desires manifest half assed?!?!?
that means your prevailing assumption is "the subconscious only materialises what i ask". change it to "my subconscious knows exactly what i want and gives me exactly that.
💭but you have to work your ass off for your desire!💢💢
you can be a hikikomori (basically chronically reclusive, in your house and away from society) and still manifest just fine.
💭but im already manifesting something else and you can manifest only one thing at a time!
people who manifested a new life with a bunch of new things and people altogether:
💭 but manifesting is satanic!
it's promoted in hinduism in the form of scripting, and you can think of it as a gift of God rather than assuming yourself to be the supreme power. (i will not discuss this much since i am not an expert in religion nor am i fully aware of the practices and mindsets of various religions. practice at your own discretion. what i said is just a suggestion and i do not intend to force this on anyone.)
💭 but i don't think i have the power to manifest!
how paradoxical. you assume you don't have the power to change your reality, and hence the assumption that you cannot realise your assumptions realises.
💭 but the 3D isn't changing!
a. keep persisting
b. it might just be a time lag
c. just relax, detachment is freedom. you have no other option but ti get your desires anyways.
💭 but i tried a,b,c,d,e... methods and none of them worked!
methods work or don't work if you say so. your word is final.
💭 but you need subliminals to manifest!
since when? it's an additional tool, not your only means of manifesting.
💭 but you need to follow xyz method to manifest.
same as the previous one. they're all optional.
💭 but you can't use negative words like "never, but, etc"!
yes you can.
💭 but i feel like shit rn 😕
okay? you can have 10 breakdowns about a jillion different problems and still manifest everything you want.
i hope this covered everything yall doubt. if not, comment what i missed and ill add it.
much love,
v.
Literally just make a decision that you have what you want and stand on it regardless of anything.
That’s what it all comes down to in my opinion.
It’s genuinely that easy.
Did you shift?
not yet no
I've gotten close tho
IK IM GONNA SHIFT & SO ARE YOU
emotions are irrelevant.
i have a hot take.
i find it very hypocritical when loa influencers tell you is what you accept (decide) to be true that manifests your state, but proceed to put “feeling good” on a pedestal immediately afterwards djdnskbs
you tell me that the only way to apply properly is if i return to my desired states since feeling is knowing not emotion one second, but immediately tell me to imagine a scene or affirmation so i can “feel good”, which is it? the reason why i’m so against this is because it’s not NATURAL. YOU DONT ALWAYS FEEL AN EMOTION AFTER MAKING A DECISION!!! why are we making unnatural things a normalized part of the law of assumption, it’s ridiculous.
a change in Self is a decision. you decide that you are or have something because you want to. that’s it. you’ve always done this. with the negative stuff, you’ve done it because you felt like you “had to”. now the scripts flipped! you can decide what you WANT! you don’t have to wait for the 3d to conform or to feel an emotion. you can just do it!
like whyyyyy do we have to be so strict with the law, man. this shits too easy.
if you want a straight forward, direct way on how to “manifest”, here you go:
1. decide what you state you want to be in
2. that’s it.
3. to persist, repeat step one.
the end that’s how you manifest. you persist because you WANT that state. you want to BE in that state, despite what you’re feeling or seeing. you choose that state because you want to, and you do it over and over again and it eventually becomes your new habitual state.
“well jay my fav blogger told me that feeling emotions is how you get things faster”
your fav blogger doesn’t understand the law LMAOOOO hate to break it to you. i’m so sorry but someone with an understanding on how this works will not push that so hard unless they’re telling you that it’s the only way you can switch a state.
also, when will you understand that imagination is the only reality and whatever you decide to be within it is what you’ll experience, despite how you feel :)
it’s not about “making stuff happen faster” it’s about being who you WANT. you’ll be that person in imagination when your 3d expresses, anyway. so what are you waiting for? lol.
listen i really want some of these loa bloggers to figure out what they want to preach because let’s be honest…i’m not gonna jump for joy the second i’m feeling something i’m not used to. no one does. so telling ppl to persist to “feel good experiencing it” is terrible advice. because people don’t operate the same way. you may or not feel emotions when you return to a desired state, we know this already. we didn’t have to “feel emotions” when we persisted in the wrong things. persist because you want to go back to that state, not because you want to feel euphoric or whatever.
“but how to do i fall in love with imagina—“
by choosing what you want to be repeatedly. lol. you make it enjoyable. you don’t have to literally fail in love with what you think is imagining. it’s about choosing what make you happy.
as long as you accept what you WANT, you’ll be fine. you can be anxious and know you’re with your sp. you’ll live if you don’t feel like you’re madly in love with them the second you accept that, i promise. lol.
ok rant over hope this helped byeeeee 🤍🤍🤍🤍
Hello, my friend. There is no right way to sit for long periods of time. You just have to endure it. Sitting techniques such as cross-legged lotus are a method of intentionally applying pressure to the legs. If the leg is pressed with pressure while the hip joint is bent in this way, the flow of life energy is interrupted. And the human body has homeostasis, so even under this pressure, it tries to circulate life energy to the legs as usual. In the process, the flow of life energy becomes stronger, and if you hold on to it for a certain period of time, the blocked energy path will be cleared and you will feel comfortable. According to an experienced person, there is a point of extreme pain every hour, two hours, or three hours, but if you endure it and overcome it, it becomes easier from then on. However, in order for the pain to completely go away and to be able to meditate comfortably, even professional meditators must undergo long-term sitting meditation training for several years. If you really want to go into deep meditation, the guide advises you to maintain sitting meditation for one hour without relaxing your legs. This is because if you relax your legs, the enhanced flow of energy will be weakened. However, if deep meditation is not your goal, simply relax your legs and sit back down whenever your legs hurt. In my experience, if I sat in meditation for a long time, I would feel a tingling sensation in my feet and legs, and a slightly hot feeling as if I was drunk would spread from my legs to my whole body. And I could feel the energy flowing strongly through my body even after I finished zazen, and this feeling lasted for several hours. However, I do not recommend sitting meditation. Because it's too painful. You can't sit comfortably just by practicing for a few weeks.