*pupils dialate*
Diversity wins! Your tumblr mutual is a monsterfucker
Why haven’t you left class yet?
(On an alternate note can someone like popular reblog me so I get attention i think that would be kinda cool)
Anyone else crying in their living room at four in the morning?
Context: I had a breakdown and ate two pieces of toast. AFTER A 72 HOUR FAST
LIKE C'MON MAN WTF WHY AM I LIKE THIS
omfg y'all I finally managed to get under 150 pounds. I've been trying to lose weight for months. I'm 146lbs right now, and I'm SO happy and proud of myself. Little thigh gap and everything! And still going! Whoo!
Man I'm on a reblog spree today. Maybe it's because for once people are ACTUALLY MAKING SOME EFFING SENSE. I myself happen to be a system and look up stuff like this so I don't feel so alone all the time. OP is right, more people (especially singlets) should see this post.
This is a serious problem I've noticed people like us having. It needs to be addressed. We're real people too, gosh dangit.
i continually see posts telling people how to treat systems correctly and yet i STILL see systems being hurt by harmful behavior, whether singlets know it or not.
do NOT put whether an alter is an introject or not above them being a real person. as a singlet BY DEFAULT their source does not matter to you. treat them like you would anyone else until you know what they are and aren't okay with.
do NOT treat alters other than the host like they're lesser than them. everyone in a system is in the same boat, your host friend included. if you treat any other alter like shit the host (and everyone else in the system) WILL be affected.
do NOT trigger alters on purpose. i shouldn't even have to say this. we aren't fun little toys for you to play with, we're REAL FUCKING PEOPLE. i don't care how big of a fan of our sources you are or how stupid you think our triggers are. be a decent person and treat us like you would anyone else. it's dehumanizing to act otherwise.
do NOT make jokes about "waiting for [x] to split" to your system friends. this one really depends on the boundaries of whoever's in question, but joking about wanting us to split is insensitive. we don't split for fun or for you to interact with your favorite character. we split because it's how our brain knows how to cope. you're not in the place to make jokes about this unless you KNOW it's okay.
often times i see posts like this get mainly reblogged by systems, when singlets are the ones who perpetuate this behavior a majority of the time. singlets can (and should) reblog AND internalize this. we're real people with a real disorder. learn to treat us like human beings.
I FOUND SOMETHING
INCREDIBLE
Ok so for all you other anas out there who want their pelvic bones to stick out, try this. Lay down flat on your back and tuck your legs underneath you for as long as you can. Doing this every night in bed has done SO much good. My pelvic bones stick out even when they normally wouldn't. There's also a little dip in my stomach now even if I maintain or gain a bit of weight.
D'awwww! Oh my gods, that is SO precious!
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Yet another post that needs to be reblogged. I questioned if I was faking a system for YEARS despite actual psychologists, doctors, a therapist, and even other systems telling me I most likely had OSDD. Seeing this kind of post helps a lot.
hey hey
pssssst
guess what
you aren't faking
you aren't faking
you aren't faking
you aren't faking
you aren't faking
you aren't faking
you aren't faking
faking is a conscious choice you make.
Oh man Tumblr image quality tho-
I made this out of boredom and a random idea at three AM lmao. Took me about an hour and two minutes. I just LOVE this whole Backrooms thing and I decided why not join in? Lol hope it looks good.