The True Curse Of The Marvel Movie Is The Glorification Of The Ironic And Insincere

I get on tumblr and its the same 6 posts refashioned from the dead horse that is glowup/levelup content.

I am always inches away from starting a FSSW-only discord group. Always.

one critical piece of advice is that opportunities are fractal doorways

you can take an opportunity that seems small, a group meeting for an hour once a week let's say, and if you really commit and put a lot of effort into even a small opportunity, if you work to prop open that passageway, then you will find that it can surprisingly quickly multiply into many future possibilities, many future paths.

one of the members of your small book club desperately needs a babysitter for the weekend. that's a gig. another one hits it off with you on some obscure topic. the bulletin board at the place you meet has a flyer for a class on writing. you go, and now you're in an environment full of other people who are there for the same reasons. talk to them. over drinks one night an older member encourages you to apply for uni with one of your short stories you wrote for the class. et cetera.

I spent a lot of time paralyzed with indecision, trying to find just the right opportunity to get me where i wanted to go. that's the entirely wrong way to go about it. practice pursuing possibilities is more important than optimizing your choice of path, waiting for just the perfect opportunity to magically drop into your lap. It likely won't happen like that, it's not necessary, and you don't need to live your whole life at once. Frodo didn't arrive at Mt Doom by making the optimal choice on the first crossroads out of the shire.

Instead cultivate an attitude of engagement with whatever imperfect seemingly insignificant opportunities that are already in front of you, and keep an open mind & eyes, and trust in the fractal nature of reality. look for threads to pull, opportunities to pursue, and engage with people as if every one of them has something new to teach you, and somewhere new to take you that you've never been. they probably do. the more you engage the more you'll find out that this is true; trust that paths will lead to more paths even if you can't see them yet. trust that the big scary void question mark of a future contains not only unseen dangers but also an unseen unfurling infinity of options and paths, friends and lovers, work and play. i love u

Huge shout to my friend from an undergraduate philosophy program who started working out every single day, not for health benefits or to become conventionally attractive or whatever, but because -- and this is a direct quote -- he was concerned that otherwise he might "become lost in the world of signs and forget the things they signify". I have thought about this every single time that I've worked out since.

Marketing 2

Okay, I’m finally getting to this. If you haven’t read part 1 yet, please do so first here.

I would like to start answering this ask I received after my first post regarding this topic.

Okay, have you ever heard of.. I don’t know, any celebrity ever? The whole Miley Cyrus crap everyone was pissed off about? That wasn’t her going crazy, that was perfectly planned by a team of pr-agents to sell her album. Kim Kardashian on the cover of Vogue? Well, she simply must have a genius working for her. Anyways, my point is that every person you see on TV, the big screen or listen to is a product. So, as a Sugar Baby you obviously are a a person, but also a product. Ok, I’m pretty sure every halfway intelligent person understands this, so let’s move on from that boring anon and get to the actual post.

Individuality

Most new products are successful because they are different. Try and figure out what differentiates you from others. This is could be anything: Tattoos, piercings, a certain body-type, a special hair colour, a specific type of laugh, majoring in physics, a weird kind of humour. It could be anything, but know what makes you special. Now, not every man will be attracted to this. But sugaring is a widely varied business, so in order to find a good match, you can’t be like the thousands of other girls on the websites.

Know your strengths

What are you good at? Conversation? Seduction? Math? It doesn’t matter. As long as you emphasise on it, you will attract people. When you see a product you are planning on buying, you usually can’t wear it while it cleans up for you. So stop trying to be everything. Everyone is good at something, so be that. Don’t pretend to be something you aren’t. It’s easy to spot a fake Louis. 

Media outlets and tools

As a Sugar Baby, you have a limited number of media outlets you can use to advertise yourself on. These are usually Sugar sites and other websites like craigslist. Depending on your area, you need to figure out which one will be the most effective. When I started out, I signed up for a whole bunch of sugar sites, but I quickly recognised that I was getting the most messages from quality POTs on SA. This completely depends on where you are, so sign up and then see which ones brings the most success. Then, concentrate on those. 

Think about your profile. If your profile and pictures are on point, you are going to save a lot of time messaging pots, they will message you. While writing your profile and taking pictures, keep your strengths, special characteristics and target group in mind.

Don’t let them know.

If your audience doesn’t realise they are being sold something, you are a very smart marketer. Don’t make your profile or messages sound like a sales pitch. Try to write in a way those men can easily relate to. Don’t put yourself on a high horse. Emphasise on your strengths, but also  mention some minor weaknesses in your profile, like smoking or saying “uhm” too much or whatever else. It makes you more relatable, credible and real.

Customer satisfaction and cost benefit ratio.

A lot of products are bought based on good marketing and if they are actually shit, they won’t be purchased again. As a Sugar Baby, that is our unfortunate reality. And while we should never meet a man asking for a “test run”, we need to be the person they wanna see over and over again. Within your limits, try to satisfy them and make them happy. In the end, these men are businessmen and know how to spend their money wisely.

Consumers aren’t born, they are made.

This is really important. Barely any guy our age thinks he’ll want a sugar baby when he’s 40. It’s an artificially created want these men grow into. Try and find out what made this man want a sugar baby? It’s usually pretty easy: Beauty and youth are valued highly in our society. This combined with a nice midlife crisis is usually your answer.

Exclusivity

I have mentioned the importance of exclusivity in Sugaring before, but here is a little tip to end on: Every time someone with an extremely high income messages me, i make sure to open the message but not respond. These are usually the men that dont send out a lot of messages but always get responses. If they see you ignoring them, they will be more interested. I do this all the time and always get a message with a crazy offer. This might sound risky, but it works. Men go crazy over what they they can’t have. 

Who you are is what you do.

We cannot abandon trans people

Being alive is such a privilege. You get to see things like this

can’t stand a bitch w no survival instincts . do not call attention 2 your weaknesses