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y/n needs to get married more...Reader should be married more! why would i date a guy for years and not marry him? give me some stability, give me married smut, give me married people fluff. gimme honeymoon nights first time sex, i dont care. give me true love, commited love, put a ring on it!

i always wake up in my dr because why would i wake up in a reality i don't want to be in? why would i be somewhere that doesn't align with my 4d? that's so silly. i exist in whatever reality i choose to exist in.

Hey, let's talk about anons like this, because I know some people haven't been in a position to see the patterns these play out in on broader scale and may indeed not spot the trap.

And it is a trap.

An ask like this has several purposes.

First, it uses social justice language in passive aggressive and manipulative ways to try to coerce a behavior. In this case, the desired behavior is usually for the recipent to participate in community shunning and/or harrassment. The language above is intended to put the recipient on the defensive where, in the haste to disassociate themself from the Bad Thing, they quickly disassociate themself from the bad person, often with no particular fact checking or evidence.

The message is also intended to create a sense of being surveilled and judged by an unknown amount of people with unknown amount of social power and an unknown amount of relevance to your life.

Notice that these asks are usually framed as if they are coming from a follower or potential follower, someone who is addressing you personally and who cares about your opinion and who your blog has an effect on. However this is usually.... very much not the case. If you've ever had the misfortune to watch a gossip campaign from like this from the outside, you will very quickly notice that messages like this get sent in mass batches to dozens and dozens of strangers. (You can often turn these up with a tumblr search, if you look.)

The sender does not know you and probably does not follow you. They have a person they don't like (possibly for their stated reason and possibly not), and they are going through the reblogs of a post from that blog and mass messaging *everyone* with a form letter. They will not see your response and they will probably never even see your blog again.

Which brings us to the second goal of whisper campaigns like this:

Notice that I blacked out the names above? That's because when the recipient answers anonymous asks like this, they provide a platform for the opinion on their blog. An anonymous message like this that gets posted doesn't just spread gossip and apply pressure to the recipient, it is spread to the recipient's entire community.

The *goal* is to get access to your community. The *goal* is to use you as a soapbox.

Is the information accurate? Did anyone check? Does the anon have an ulterior social motive? BIG SHRUG

If you go into the comments on one of these whisper campaigns you will see that *most people never bother to check.*

They assume good faith from a follower, they're off balance defending themselves, and they jump straight to conciliation.

It's a really, really effective form of social manipulation, and really really commonly misused.

I love being obsessed over, I love getting constant attention, I love being bothered, i love being bothered by him, I love having anons, I love getting any and all types of attention. So this is a message to anyone, my ask box is open for anything and everything!!

i am.

I am in my DR

I am pure consciousness

I am a master shifter

I am

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Now get your lazy ass and go shift before some 10yo will get your s/o.

(thank you beyoncé)

i am a total genius and i'm totally gonna get a 100% on my ap statistics quiz tomorrow. like i'm literally the smartest person in the class and i always get the highest marks. i even got a 100% on all of the review. i'm so ready and so prepared, i don't even need to study. i can just walk into class and get 100% on the test because i'm that smart. and statistics comes so easy to me. i was born knowing all of the calculator functions and the difference between t-tests. the test tomorrow is actually going to be the easiest exam i have ever taken in my entire life. like it's just going to be so easy and i'm going to know the answer immediately after i look at the problem. especially the multiple choice. i am a boss at ap-style multiple choice questions. everyone in the class is probably jealous of me because my grade is the highest and they are barely passing. whatever, i can't help how perfect i am. math just comes really easy to me. i was blessed that way.

hii i wanna shift badly tonight, any tips?

I dunno if someone has requested it yet but I'd like to see Rugbyplayer!Jason

(Sinoesmuchamolestia 👉👈)

i dont know anything about rugby im not going to lie, but it was fun to draw this heheh

It's okay to not want to be in this reality. It's okay to permashift. It's okay to respawn. It's okay to have a dr that's not morally okay to others. It's okay to be madly in love with a “fictional character” and shift for them. It's okay to script anything, or not script at all. It's okay to script people out of your dr. It's okay to go off canon. It's okay to use shifting as a coping mechanism. It's okay to not feel motivated to shift. Iits okay to hate your cr. It's okay to doubt. It's okay to feel homesick even when you haven't shifted yet. It's okay to have a s/o. It's okay to not have a s/o. It's okay to only want to shift and then come back. It's okay to have a popular dr. It's okay to not have a popular dr. It's okay to not use methods to shift. It's okay to use methods to shift. It's okay to shift due to your current circumstances. It's okay to shift if you just want to and have no other motive. It's okay.